Sorry for the late reply. It's been a busy week.
Thanks poopyla and Aubrie. It gave me a boost to think that maybe I was "golden" for a moment.
Somethingremorse, yes, I got back into the show just before the 2nd act started and BH never left his seat so he was fine. We didn't have any time to discuss what happened until after the show but we did after we got home and BH was ok with how I handled it.
As a bit of an update, BH's birthday is tomorrow and per the usual he wanted to have dinner with his family. He invited "everyone" and his sister called back to ask if he was ok if AP/BIL came. I didn't imagine BH would be ok with that but we hadn't discussed it. But to my chagrin, he told her he was ok with him coming! Wow, he surprises me. I'm so proud of him. Cheers to another baby step towards healing and making things a little less awkward in the future.
Me: WW (32)
Him: BH (37)
1 DS, 1 DD, and 1 DD on the way
Married 12 years