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Smashedat58
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Default  Posted: 12:01 PM, May 22nd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think I might be experiencing similar regrets from my STBXH. He emailed this morning that he was worried that our children will discover that we don't get along. Give me a break, we have been separated for over 4 months, and in process for divorce for 4, also. Suddenly, he's worried what our children, 27 and 31, will think? He is delusional, and is getting crickets. These worthless POS, don't deserve an answer.
Another thought,don't you want him to end up with her, so they can both be miserable together? I wouldn't give her a clue. Let them marry, and let her break his heart. You owe him nothing.

Posts: 166 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Upstate New York
lovehonorcherish
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Default  Posted: 12:14 PM, May 22nd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great minds think alike Smashedat58 Sorry to hear you are having to deal with this as well...


I am no longer accepting the things I cannot change...I am changing the things I cannot accept.

Posts: 125 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Northeastern US
devistatedmom
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Default  Posted: 4:27 PM, May 22nd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think you are all on the wrong track, and giving him too much credit thinking he can get her back and have both wife and OW again. He ain't that smart. He's just sending that so down the road he can tell people, well, I TRIED to get back to her, but she wouldn't! She's the bad guy! Not me! She wouldn't try!!

Crap, he could have AT LEAST tried to say it to you in person, not in an email while you know OW is there.


BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.


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lovehonorcherish
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Default  Posted: 4:53 PM, May 22nd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No need to worry about that devistatedmom. He is already rewriting history....claiming that I abandoned him and gave up on our marriage. The people who matter know the truth.


I am no longer accepting the things I cannot change...I am changing the things I cannot accept.

Posts: 125 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Northeastern US
Smashedat58
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Default  Posted: 8:05 PM, May 23rd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We are married to the same person. I have heard that WH has said the same, to our daughter (31) no less. She said he thinks he is. victim. Nobody else does.

Posts: 166 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Upstate New York
lovehonorcherish
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Default  Posted: 6:30 AM, May 24th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This ^^^^^

[This message edited by lovehonorcherish at 6:30 AM, May 24th (Saturday)]


I am no longer accepting the things I cannot change...I am changing the things I cannot accept.

Posts: 125 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Northeastern US
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