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User Topic: Celebrate with me!
Strangefacade
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Default  Posted: 8:23 PM, May 20th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My story: http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=531265

If you don't want to read, I'll sum up. Three kids under four, husband cheated for ten months with babysitter. Gave me and our newborn an std. Says he wants to work it out, no real remorse seen.
I filed for divorce 5/14!
He gets served tomorrow!
I am starting a new life!


I'm strong again. That's the only reason you choose me.

Posts: 30 | Registered: May 2014 | From: Mi
Caretaker1
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Default  Posted: 8:31 PM, May 20th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

These WS are idiots and he put you and your newborn at risk, for what???? Stay strong and get rid of him.

Posts: 234 | Registered: Mar 2014
Oftencheatedon
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Default  Posted: 8:44 PM, May 20th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It is never a bad decision to get rid of crap.

Posts: 105 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: AL
risingfromashes
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Default  Posted: 9:58 PM, May 20th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I applaud your strength. You will get through this and come out the other side to see that there can happiness again.


There is life on the other side of hell.

Posts: 1619 | Registered: Mar 2004
dmari
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Default  Posted: 10:46 PM, May 20th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

CeLeBrAtINg WiTh YoU!! You are so on your way to a better and more fulfilling life!!


Me (BS): 42 Children: DD 18, DS 15
Settled at mediation
Officially divorced ... SOON!

Posts: 2146 | Registered: Oct 2012
WeepingBuddhist
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Default  Posted: 8:08 AM, May 21st (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Cheers to your next life!


Me: BS 46
Him: unimportant
D Day:4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14

Posts: 560 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Columbus
Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 8:35 AM, May 21st (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah....how did it go after he was served?


Donít get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well.†

Posts: 2647 | Registered: Jan 2010
littlefoggy
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Default  Posted: 9:22 AM, May 21st (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good for you.

I am definitely celebrating with you.


Me: BW 30
WH 37
DDay 11/12/13
Divorcing

Posts: 492 | Registered: Nov 2013
justme1264
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Default  Posted: 9:37 AM, May 21st (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Filing for divorce and taking control must have felt great! Congrats!!!


Me: BH 32
D will be final Nov 2014

Posts: 274 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: justme1264
Skan
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Default  Posted: 5:22 PM, May 22nd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good for you!


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4719 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
meredith132
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Default  Posted: 5:58 PM, May 22nd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

well done, and my advice get all their stuff out of your home it is a huge weight off your shoulders and makes it real and gives you a sense of freedom x Good luck xxx

Posts: 52 | Registered: Dec 2013
PolyGal
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Default  Posted: 1:48 AM, May 23rd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

good work!!

Posts: 118 | Registered: Jul 2008
GingerAle
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Default  Posted: 9:11 AM, May 23rd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Way to go!!


My WH (The KISA, NPD) 6 month EA in 2010
2 other EAs in 2012 & 2013
Filed for D 7/2014


Posts: 404 | Registered: Nov 2011
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