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User Topic: Wayward spouses make me sick.Warning language VENT.
heartbroken2012
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Default  Posted: 7:49 AM, May 20th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Im so sick of them. All of them. What kind of sick, horrible, slutty, disgusting person do you have to be to CHEAT and BETRAY the people you made promises to? I mean do promises mean ANYTHING to you guys? I find all wayward spouses DISGUSTING at this moment.

Sometimes I look at my WH and I am so disgusted by him, and I bet other wayward's spouses are too. Maybe they dont always tell the wayward that they are DISGUSTING, but I bet it happens. What kind of piece of filth does that to someone that loves them? Selfish doesnt even begin to describe them.

I was looking at the OW's (horse face disgusting slut) daughters instagram (I know I shouldnt, but I guess I feel the need to see what that WHORE is up to). And the daughter had a picture of her and her SLUTTY ASS UGLY OLD MOM with her and under the picture was this description:

"Every day I become more and more like my mom, and I couldnt be more proud".

Yea. WTF? If she only knew what type of husband stealing, slutty, crotchless panty wearing, work whore her mom was, and how her MOM wanted to leave her own daughter and son for my husband and live in some trailer. I bet she wouldnt be so proud.

WHAT A FUCKING JOKE.

I HOPE till the day I die, that the OW, WHORE, NASTY BITCH dies of cancer and let it eat away at her and give her more pain than any human being should endure.

DIE YOU HORRIBLE UGLY WHORE.

[This message edited by heartbroken2012 at 7:50 AM, May 20th (Tuesday)]


BS(Me) - 32
WS(HUbbie) - 40
OW - 44 (a ugly, old, white trash horse faced Coworker)
Affair was 2 months long
3 kids - 5yr old, and twins 8 months
Dday - 12/25/12 (lots of signs before I should have seen)

Posts: 551 | Registered: Jan 2013
heartbroken2012
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Default  Posted: 7:54 AM, May 20th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Im so sick of feeling this way. I look at the OW and I just see this nasty person and think I must be something so ugly and disgusting. I know everyone says that its not about me, but thats all I see.

How could he have done this...


BS(Me) - 32
WS(HUbbie) - 40
OW - 44 (a ugly, old, white trash horse faced Coworker)
Affair was 2 months long
3 kids - 5yr old, and twins 8 months
Dday - 12/25/12 (lots of signs before I should have seen)

Posts: 551 | Registered: Jan 2013
NeverAgain2013
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Default  Posted: 8:06 AM, May 20th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah, the ex's fat ass OW showed me absolutely NO respect at all and is a total piece of shit.

But the bigger piece of shit is my ex who gave her the opportunity to do so; she couldn't have done it without his permission.

I directed my anger and disgust at the one who deserved it - the ex.

That's why he's an ex.



.

[This message edited by NeverAgain2013 at 8:07 AM, May 20th (Tuesday)]


Be careful - that 'knight in shining armor' may very well be nothing more than an assclown wrapped in tin foil.
ME: 50+ years old and cute as a button :-)
Ex-WBF: Just a lying, cheating, gravy-sucking pig - and I left him in 2012.

Posts: 1819 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: USA
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 8:11 AM, May 20th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((hugs)))

I just see this nasty person and think I must be something so ugly and disgusting

You can't go through this thinking that you must be disgusting or ugly because you have a spouse that had poor boundaries and poor choices. You are hurting so much still. And there is a a girl out there that will be right there when she learns the truth about her mom.

May you realize that you are a beautiful person and can see that this is his issue. Sending peace your way.


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 52682 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
kiki1
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Default  Posted: 8:16 AM, May 20th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Heartbroken)))

It isnt you that's ugly and disgusting!!

Let the anger at the ow go. Will do you no good. She invaded your life cause your ws allowed her to. If it wasnt her, it wouldve been another. She is nothing in particular.

I understand your feelings though. we've all felt them.

Keep your head up, your the one who stayed true to your vows and yourself. You can be proud of that.

Do you understand the beautiful person that makes you?


Posts: 617 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: new york
somanyyears
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Default  Posted: 8:21 AM, May 20th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

..(((((((hb2012)))))))..

..have faith that she will eventually suffer the consequences of her selfish actions..

..higher powers will come to bear on her..and that she must live with her own conscience..

..the OM in my case was my bff from HS and Boy Scouts.. his guilty concience and God's will gave him a life ending brain tumour at age 57..

..he spent the last year of his life suffering , watching his law career go down the toilet, and had to realize that his nasty choices would result in leaving his wife and two sons before they grew up. He missed seeing them graduate HS, get married, have grandchildren, enjoy any retirement years.. I live with a smile on my face just knowing how much he lost..

he got exactly what he deserved!..

..so have faith that your OW will be getting her come-upance... eventually..

smy

[This message edited by somanyyears at 8:23 AM, May 20th (Tuesday)]


trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 67
Her 63
Married 42 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf


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allatsea
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Default  Posted: 8:27 AM, May 20th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I get why you hate the OW but I reckon most of your anger should be at WH.

Sure, OW is a cheap, stealing whore of a bitch. The POS is my situation is a nasty piece of work but I always remind myself that if my wife had proper boundaries and kept her panties on the OP wouldn't have got a look in.


Me 40
WW 38
Together 19 years
Married for 9
DS(1) 9
DS(2) 7
Dday 10th Feb 2013
She moved in with POS and took kids 23rd Mar 2013. WW now has new baby
Divorced April 2014

Posts: 721 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: UK
krsplat
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Default  Posted: 8:31 AM, May 20th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Feel better now? Sometimes, you just have to get it all out of your system.

They are a disgusting lot, as a whole. Liars and backstabbers, betrayers and destroyers, every one. They are also terribly broken people who -- if they are ever able to be honest -- are pretty disgusted with themselves. Some of them do eventually takes their heads out of thier asses -- there are a few very wise and compelling voices over on the Wayward Side! -- and some just crawl off to live in whatever hole they dug themselves.

I hear you wishing for justice, that those who dole out such tremendous hurt should feel the same pain that they inflict so that they undestand what they have done. It is so damn unfair that we BS pay the price for what the WS do.

I wish you a measure of peace, heartbroken. Keep venting as needed. We're here!


Me & WH: 48, married 22 years, 4 kids
DDay: 3/5/14, 7 yr LTA plus multiple ONS
Status: Back on the coaster. Who knows?

Posts: 373 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: Virginia
Lovedyoumore
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Default  Posted: 9:06 AM, May 20th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good vent. Really, great vent. I totally get it and your feelings behind it. I am not going to tell you that you need to be feeling any other way than how you feel right now. Sometimes we just need to let our fingers fly and get the crap out there. Vent on whenever you need to put it out there.

Your WS is an idiot. And yes, the WS makes me sick, also. The whole A driven crap makes me still seethe at times and I also hate the OW with a loathing I have never felt for anyone else.

I hope your day gets better now that you have let off the steam.


Me 52
WH 52
Married 30+ years
Together trying to R

I tell people I am tired but really my heart is broken and I am sad.


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Mapleleaf4ever
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Default  Posted: 9:33 AM, May 20th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I feel every word that you wrote. I have said far worse myself. But when reading your words it really hit me the power that we allow other people to have over our lives/well being. If only there was an on/off switch for that. In the present time I guess we will have to focus more on healing ourselves as opposed to putting so much energy into Narcissistic assholes.


ME-BH (52)
HER-WW (52)
Married 16 years,
together 20years
One beautiful daughter.
DDay #1 - 06 Apr 2011 EA
DDay #2 - 01 Feb 2012 PA

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Red  Posted: 12:27 PM, May 20th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

krsplat,

This vent isn't about the WS's on this site, lets not make it about them.

Thank you.


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heartbroken2012
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Default  Posted: 12:57 PM, May 20th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The vent helped. Im sorry for any WS that read this. This was directed at my WH and the OW. I guess it was my anger and pain lashing out.

I appreciate the support and advise that WS on this site have provided. I acknowledge the WS on this site are trying to help, understand,fix themselves, and support. I wish my WH would even go that far.


BS(Me) - 32
WS(HUbbie) - 40
OW - 44 (a ugly, old, white trash horse faced Coworker)
Affair was 2 months long
3 kids - 5yr old, and twins 8 months
Dday - 12/25/12 (lots of signs before I should have seen)

Posts: 551 | Registered: Jan 2013
ButterflyGirl
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Default  Posted: 1:07 PM, May 20th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I like that vent. Good one. Can I try?

YEAH! WAYWARDS AND THEIR CROTCHLESS PANTY WHORES SUCK!!!


xBW~ 35
Two DS~ 7-Eleven
"I've wiped the shit off. It can be wiped off you know." ~ asurvivor

Posts: 2337 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Florida, USA
needfriendshere
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Default  Posted: 1:09 PM, May 20th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have to tell you that your vent made ME feel good - you did what a lot of us wish we could. The closest I came to doing what you just did was printing a picture of the OW from the internet and writing "this is the disgusting whore who almost broke up a great marriage" on it. Then I placed it in a file along with copies of the correspondence she sent me, and the credit card statements I finally got access to that show how much the "A" cost our family financially. It's what I call my JIC (or "just in case") file.

The truth is, though, that our WS's are just as much to blame for this as they are. We need to keep that in mind as we both A.) heal, and B.)prepare ourselves for the future - with or without them. Best of luck to you, my friend!


Me: early 50's
WH: early 50's
Married: 23 years
DS: 21 years old
Other DS: 18 years old
D-day: 2/14/2014
H's AP lasted 6 years, but we are both trying hard to R.

Posts: 423 | Registered: May 2014
SpecialK
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Default  Posted: 6:22 PM, May 24th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I get why you hate the OW but I reckon most of your anger should be at WH.

Umm, I believe if you read the title of this post, this is directed at her WS. And I agree with applaud your vent heartbroken2012, good job.


Posts: 317 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Florida
SunshineSoul
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Default  Posted: 8:53 PM, May 24th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Amen, Heartbroken. I couldn't agree more.
I saw a pic of the douche canoe's slutty face today for the first time. Disgusting.


Me = BS, 36
Him = WH, 42
2 beautiful kids: 6yo & 11 month old.
Married since 2001, together since 1998.
Dday = Feb 20, 2014.

It's just not that simple.


Posts: 99 | Registered: May 2014 | From: West Coast
PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 9:02 PM, May 24th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Let it out woman! Sometimes you just have to blow.


divorced the Dooosh
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even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3612 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
angerisme
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Default  Posted: 4:15 PM, May 25th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

way to go!!! You just said what so many of us FEEL! How wonderful we have this place to come and blow off steam before facing the world with dignity and grace :)

Never let the crotchless panty wearing whore see your hurt or anger. They are usually drama queens who feel empowered by the devastation they leave in their wake. The best thing I ever did was laugh in her face and tell her, "I got the young, handsome strong idealistic man who gave me beautiful children and an idyllic life. YOU got the angry balding old man with erecttile dysfunction who is trying to pretend he is not going to die. You get a bitter dysfunctional clown who is as weak and impotent as a baby calf. So you enjoy my husband while I go to Disneyworld with HIS money for a week at the Contemporary with his very happy, successful children and we wont even think about you two pitiful little clowns. Grunting and rolling around in a smelly old man's bed. Nope, me and my kids will be screaming with glee on the Tower of terror followed by yummy food and cotton candy. Now who is the winner bitch?"

Of course I have mourned the loss of that good man I loved, but in his anger and bitterness I am much better without him around.

NEVER LET THE WHORE SEE YOU UNHAPPY OR ANGRY...NEVER!


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ButterflyGirl
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Default  Posted: 4:26 PM, May 25th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

t/j

Can't wait to see the new Diagon Alley at Universal this summer!


<<<----- Harry Potter Freak


xBW~ 35
Two DS~ 7-Eleven
"I've wiped the shit off. It can be wiped off you know." ~ asurvivor

Posts: 2337 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Florida, USA
kansas1968
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Default  Posted: 6:04 PM, May 25th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It is amazing how much anger is generated by an affair. I never knew I could get so angry. Actually it is rage. I just told my husband the other day that one of the things that I really hate about the affair is that it has caused me to hate, really hate, another person. I have never really hated another person. I thought I had, but nothing like this. I wish her dead and that is a horrible, horrible, way to feel about another human being. But I do. Just another horrible consequence of the thoughtless actions of our WS.


Me - BS
Him - FWS
DD - December 14, 2010
Married 43 years 1/14/2011
Affair lasted 7+ years
Affair had been over for 2 years before I found out. OW sent me a letter.

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