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Dallas2
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Default  Posted: 5:58 PM, May 18th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I want to Thank everyone for all your support and advice through the years. I know many of you will think I'm crazy but I do not believe my H is cheating. He may be looking and I do believe that is my fault.

He made a mistake 10 years ago but I made a bigger one because even though I thought I had tried to get past it it wasn't until very recently that his A didn't tear me apart. I feel that he thinks I will never get over it. We all know that no matter what it is a part of our life but now it's not a major part.

My H is a good and decent man and I love him. I only hope that I can convince him of that and that we do have a bright and happy future ahead of us. If not I hope he finds his happiness and God gives me the strentgh to live this life I have left without him.

Again Thank you all and please wish us well.


Me

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devasted30
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Default  Posted: 6:01 PM, May 18th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I wish you well. Good luck Dallas2. God be with you.


And remember Murphy is right. Nothing is so bad that it can't get worse!!!

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annb
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Default  Posted: 6:01 PM, May 18th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Dallas2, now I am VERY concerned based on your last few posts....VERY concerned.

This post does not sound like you at all!


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annb
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Default  Posted: 6:07 PM, May 18th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Apparently this was not some quick moment. He has talked to the bank, found a place to stay, and made othe arrangements. I feel like I am the last to know. I can't believe that there isn't someone else in the wings but he claims not. Either way he took off his wedding ring and said he just can't put it back on

^^^^This is what you said YESTERDAY! This post is a bit *fishy* to me. I am wondering if someone hacked Dallas2's account? Now I'm worried about her.....


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Chicky
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Default  Posted: 6:10 PM, May 18th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

annb, I don't think it IS her based on her last few postings. It wouldn't be the firstime a WS hijacked their BS's account.

eta: she also stated he had blocked her out of the account that holds the majority of their money.

[This message edited by Chicky at 6:11 PM, May 18th (Sunday)]


There's a difference between giving up and knowing when you've had enough.

Posts: 556 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: Somewhere Over The Rainbow
steadfast1973
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Default  Posted: 6:16 PM, May 18th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me- 40- BS Him- 36- WH D-day#1 5/25/09 3 mo. EA d-day#2 11/06/13 Prostitute 11/5/13 in R
"I've seen your flag on the marble arch, our love is not a victory march, it's a cold and broken hallelujah."- Leonard Cohen

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devasted30
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Default  Posted: 6:19 PM, May 18th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What is happening here?


And remember Murphy is right. Nothing is so bad that it can't get worse!!!

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metamorphisis
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Red  Posted: 6:57 PM, May 18th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Let's calm down. It's completely plausible that Dallas2 has spoken to her husband and feels they can work things out if she stops posting. Regardless, we need to give her some space and not jump to the worst conclusions with no information.



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

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confused615
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Default  Posted: 5:20 AM, May 19th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Are you ok, Honey?


BS(me)42
FWH 45
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
Status: Reconciling?

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


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stronger08
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Default  Posted: 5:23 AM, May 19th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Best of luck. I hope you find a place of healing.


You cant eat soup with chopsticks.

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LovesLaboursLost
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Default  Posted: 9:07 AM, May 19th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Plausible, sure....but this is red flaggy to me. I agree that the "voice" in this post doesn't sound like Dallas' other posts.

Dallas, I hope you are OK.


I'm a work in progress.

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steadfast1973
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Default  Posted: 9:11 AM, May 19th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

actually... for a bit right after dday1 I felt this. Actually convinced I invented the whole thing in my head... For about a week... Sure, Be friends with OW... The first sentence... I said those words to my friend... She wouldn't be the first BS to buy into some serious gas lighting and TT.


Me- 40- BS Him- 36- WH D-day#1 5/25/09 3 mo. EA d-day#2 11/06/13 Prostitute 11/5/13 in R
"I've seen your flag on the marble arch, our love is not a victory march, it's a cold and broken hallelujah."- Leonard Cohen

Posts: 2286 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Midwest
damnUnicorns
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Default  Posted: 10:23 AM, May 19th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm concerned, but if this is Dallas2 I certainly hope she comes through this stronger & happier.
Best wishes, hun! ♡


Unremorseful WH-48
BW(me)-46
M 26+ years
DS 26, DD 23
H moved out 10/3/12
IN House S, H lost job 2/7/14→now
Dday 1- 3/2002 short EA/PA w-COW
Dday 2- 2/12/14→LTA, H STILL seeing "Bi"MfCOW (OW now S too)!

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