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futurehoper
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Default  Posted: 8:00 PM, May 17th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Does anybody have knowledge of this app? My husband had a ton of short (1 min ) calls on his phone log this week. When I looked up the number, I found info that said this number comes up when someone is using the CATE app that allows you to completely hide the number they are really calling. It's called the infidelity app?


Me: BS, 44
Him: WH, 43
DS, 16
DD, 12
Married 18 years, together 25
separated; filed for divorce
AP: coworker (his nurse-also married, 2 small kids, was her husband's mistress during his previous marriage)

Posts: 30 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: San Antonio, Texas
Ostrich80
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Default  Posted: 8:12 PM, May 17th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just looked it up...wow. Apparently this was invented by a contestant on Shark Tank. Not good..


BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

Posts: 4719 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
futurehoper
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Default  Posted: 8:31 PM, May 17th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

no, Ostrich, not good. Annnnnd , my ever truthful WH is swearing that he does not know anything about these calls, why am I not believing him, blah blah blahdedah blah. He also said that maybe the app got downloaded by accident, that maybe someone at the hotel hijacked his phone (huh???) I swear, the excuses just get crazier with time.


Me: BS, 44
Him: WH, 43
DS, 16
DD, 12
Married 18 years, together 25
separated; filed for divorce
AP: coworker (his nurse-also married, 2 small kids, was her husband's mistress during his previous marriage)

Posts: 30 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: San Antonio, Texas
Pass
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Default  Posted: 10:38 PM, May 17th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Someone broke into my hotel room, installed this slutty app on my phone, touched nothing else."

Sounds probable to me.


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after married 17 years, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


Posts: 1673 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
Ostrich80
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Member # 34827
Default  Posted: 12:34 AM, May 18th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What I read, said its a $5 charge..soooo no accidents buddy


BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

Posts: 4719 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
ButterflyGirl
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Default  Posted: 1:28 AM, May 18th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Someone broke into my hotel room, installed this slutty app on my phone, touched nothing else."
Sounds probable to me.

It depresses me how easy it is to gaslight someone when they really want to trust and believe you.. A-holes..

You know he's lying. The question now is what are you going to do about it?


xBW~ 35
Two of the most darling sons ~ 10 and 7

Posts: 2000 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Florida, USA
SadInNC
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Default  Posted: 1:53 AM, May 18th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It amazes me how stupid the WS think we are!!!

He also said that maybe the app got downloaded by accident, that maybe someone at the hotel hijacked his phone (huh???)

Tell him that a zombie broke out of her grave the other night, found a divorce attorney and filed for divorce in your name. And since she went to all that trouble, you're going to go through with the divorce.

He is a dumbass.


BS/Me WH/Him

"Your value doesn't decrease based on someone's inability to see your worth." -Unknown Wise Person


Posts: 337 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: North Carolina, United States
NeverAgain2013
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Default  Posted: 5:37 AM, May 18th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I see by your signature that you're separated and divorcing, so something like this just confirms you made the right decision to lose his ass.


Be careful - that 'knight in shining armor' may very well be nothing more than an assclown wrapped in tin foil.
ME: 50+ years old and cute as a button :-)
Ex-WBF: Just a lying, cheating, gravy-sucking pig - and I left him in 2012.

Posts: 1566 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: USA
futurehoper
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Default  Posted: 11:00 AM, May 18th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

All of your sarcastic humor has cheered me up!!! Yes, I filed for divorce. Still have to have contact because of the kids. And, I'm hoping to not finalize the divorce for another 18 months, which will make us married 20 years, and will give me military benefits for life. (or until I remarry, which my STBXH keeps warning me...'You'll lose tricare for life when you remarry.' Once, I replied with 'I'm not the one who has someone on the side.') Yes, I know I have made the right move, but it is still hard to believe that the person I thought he was for 25 years is gone and replaced by this whiny, narcissistic, bratty child. He's gone, but then I still have to see/talk to him almost daily. Like a living ghost that I need to ignore. Absolutely horrible.


Me: BS, 44
Him: WH, 43
DS, 16
DD, 12
Married 18 years, together 25
separated; filed for divorce
AP: coworker (his nurse-also married, 2 small kids, was her husband's mistress during his previous marriage)

Posts: 30 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: San Antonio, Texas
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