Okay then. As you are determined to never grow up, we will stick to the guidelines. From now on, don't ask my wife anything as you are not entitled to know. If she picks up Teslet it is at my behest and that's all you need to know. It doesn't upset you that I'm not picking him up, it upsets you that Teslet loves stripper whore so much. So stop taking your shit out on everyone else.
Wow. This guy is losing it. But hey, whatever you have to tell stripper whore to keep her doing your bidding is just fine by me. Now, I actually have zero problem with her picking Teslet up. What bothers me is that I tell Teslet one thing and something else happens. My son does not like uncertainty. He acts out when shit starts not happening as he expects it. But I get it, I'll just have to start telling Teslet that I don't know who is picking him up.
But here is the really important thing...what if he is out of town and she's picking him up for afternoon visits/future weekend visits and he never even sees his dad? That's an issue. It seems from the last two pick-ups that he may be setting this very situation up.
Ex-shat will take his travel trailer out to these jobs. It sounds like his plan is to have stripper whore, baby, and Teslet in travel trailer while he works these 12 hour shifts. Again, I don't have a problem with this...it's life/his parenting time...he has to work. But why does it have to be the weeks he specifies and not in June...I don't see the difference. Would this be considered a change of residence? Or is Teslet on 'vacation' with ex-shat? The waters get muddied and ex-shat starts pulling shit in muddy waters.
ANyway, crickets to him and I need to get some clarification on these things from my lawyer.
Hello? Hello? Anyone home, huh? Think, EX-SHAT! Think!
But I think I found how ex-shat and StripperWhore met...
[Ex-Shat comes to StripperWhore at the local diner]
Ex-Shat: StripperWhore. My density has brought me to you.
StripperWhore: [non-plussed] What?
Ex-Shat: [trying to utter line written on notebook without being caught] Oh. What I meant to say was...
StripperWhore: Wait a minute. Don't I know you from somewhere?
Ex-Shat: Yes. Yes. I'm Ex-Shat. Ex-Shat McFuckTard. I'm your density. I mean, your destiny.
But seriously girl, he just tried to bait you, and you thought about defending yourself FOR NO FUCKING REASON. Yes, sit on it for a while.
You were perfectly unemotionally talking about the schedule, and he wants to throw in some ridiculous jabs to get you upset. Like you still give a fuck what he's doing. Unless, like you said, whatever it is is NOT with Teslet. What an egotistical ass..
If we are keeping score, Ex-shat is now in need of a dictionary, a remedial math class and a calendar. And a filter because what comes out of his mouth is full of shit.
I can't believe how fucking stupid he is, except that I can.
In my opinion, the travel trailer in a new location for the duration he describes is a change in residence. It may be a temporary residence, but in no way is it a vacation.
I hope your L has some solution? Is there a solution that is legal, because of course, the removal of ex-shat from the planet would be a solution, but I doubt NASA would accept him for the Mars trip.
Stbx *wants* something. Sends a communication in a fairly 'reasonable' tone and paints it as a *good* thing for both of us.
I point out all of the holes in his *solution*.
He throws a mantrum.
Comms are then 'shut down' and L's are called.
(then stbx bitches about our legal bills )
I always end up thinking: "*he* is the one who 'wants' <something>, then prefers to have an argument instead of a discussion (because I don't just automatically say 'yes, dear, whatever you say)....and then becomes insulting and offensive towards me. GREAT PLAN!! Way to ensure that you do NOT get me to agree to whatever 'favor' you're asking me for, stbx......
In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.
Shit. I can't believe I have 14 more years of this.
As far as his mantrum, that was epic pathetic. LOL! What a idiot.
Hang in there, tesla!! You know you can handle it but it must get tiring after a while. (((((tesla)))))
He's looking for some arse cheese to go with his whine. Dude needs to learn not to drunk dial.
Camping means something different to me. If he's working the whole time then that's just slumming it, not camping.
I hate him for making me feel grateful for the sad clown. At least he can read most of the time.
Maybe in another year I'll get used to this. Maybe in another year, he'll figure out that life is easier when he just plays by the rules.
Good news, I'm not personally insulted by his bullshit anymore. I guess that's progress.
Maybe in another year, he'll figure out that life is easier when he just plays by the rules
Good freakin' luck with that.....
It is what it is.
My FIL is a weirdo, and he does all kids of crazy shit that falls into the wtf category, and my kids with a very limited amount of exposure to him, holidays, and birthdays only, picked up on it before they were 8. Asking the questions of How come Gpa does X, Y and Z? And me being a realist, and my H being a realist who is no nonsense would tell them that Grandpa is just different, and makes unusual choices.
So Yah, they spent the night with them one time. That's it. Why? Because they prefer to just not be around him. Now my MIL? They would freaking move in with her if I let them. LOL.
My point being that Exshat will ruin this for himself, and it will be well before Tesla is 18.
Deep breaths, and know that you are doing the right things.