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User Topic: Betrayed Men Part 20
LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 3:04 PM, June 14th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

GP - That is a rough story, and there is a lot of history there. I can see how this day could pain you.

I think you are a great father. Seriously, I look up to you for that. I can tell from your posts that you really are an outstanding and fantastic dad. Every time your name pops up here, I look forward to seeing your posts, and hearing about how you are progressing along successfully with your kids. It is an inspiration. For these reasons, I wish *you* a Happy Father's Day. Cheers!


"I would rather take a punch than not give you a shot. I'd rather find out who you are than who you're not."

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Sal1995
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Default  Posted: 3:26 PM, June 14th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This was my reply to something SWAT posted on his JFO thread. Lost my bearings and thought I was in the Menz thread at the time, so I'll repost here since it was meant for the rest of you as well:

Happy Father's Day weekend SWAT, and to all the Menz. Post d-day I find days and weekends like this - holidays and Hallmark holidays - to be especially tough. The hurtful things that were done to us and the family as a whole come into sharper focus. For me at least - your marriage may vary.
Screw that depressing shit, let's enjoy the weekend with our kids.

Re: Tred's post on pg. 32. The two imports side-by-side had my mouth watering. I don't know if you had company or were sampling two at the same time, but it makes a pretty pic either way. And I thought you were strictly a domestic beer man.


Me-45
WW-42
DDay 2/17/13, 9-10 month PA/EA
Final NC late Feb. '13
M - 18 years, together 19+
4 children

Reconciling


Posts: 1331 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Texas
LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 3:30 PM, June 14th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Tred was being bashful about having a beer named after him. If the bottle were turned slightly counter-clockwise, you would see that it is actually called "Tred Stripe".


"I would rather take a punch than not give you a shot. I'd rather find out who you are than who you're not."

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yearsofpain25
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Default  Posted: 4:18 PM, June 14th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hey GP - betrayed child here too. That is a very painful story that you have there. Enough for a lifetime I'm sure. Sounds like my mother and your dad should get together and go bowling or something. Scratch that. I wouldn't do that to your dad.

A lot of these "family" holidays are triggery for many of in general from either FOO ro sitches with our current families.

GP, Losfer, you guys are both great dad's. Wishing you both peace. And beer...or the drink of your choice.

@Sal

Lost my bearings and thought I was in the Menz thread at the time

Hilarious because when I saw your post in SWAT's thread, I posted something to your post thinking I was in the menz thread as well. Once I realized I was in JFO I took it out. I can't even remember what it was now.


25 years and counting of pain caused by mother's infidelity. Aftermath: 1 deceased sibling, 1 lost family, 3 lost souls.
"Each new day I am just glad to be alive and have survived all that I did." Ashland13

Posts: 1869 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Northeast US
Sal1995
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Default  Posted: 6:47 PM, June 14th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's funny yop. If you remember what it was, just post it here.


Me-45
WW-42
DDay 2/17/13, 9-10 month PA/EA
Final NC late Feb. '13
M - 18 years, together 19+
4 children

Reconciling


Posts: 1331 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Texas
5454real
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Default  Posted: 8:48 PM, June 14th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Losfer,

I salute you brother. You have shown your son what it takes to be a man.

Thank you for being his Father.

Strength brother.


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2581 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
jjct
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Default  Posted: 6:12 AM, June 15th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oreo's a pretty girl,
she's all that's left to me
'sides words in silence
shooting stars,
beer that's put here,
some see.

In all the outcomes
that I know,
things landed in a lap,
give a teary bleary
ephemeral salute
to fathers everywhere

there's that.
I have no where else to put this
in private
raised with total kind hand,
in gentle kneeling keening sigh
say
true fathers?
I doff my hat.

I hope your day has beer and love and good satisfied sighs menz.


Posts: 6430 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
ontheslope
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Default  Posted: 7:48 AM, June 15th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy father's day gents.

That is all.


Me: BH, 36
Her: WW, 37
Two girls 8 & 10
Married 12 years
Dday: July, 2009

She wants answers... I'm still trying to figure out what the questions are.


Posts: 269 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Maine, USA
Tred
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Default  Posted: 8:20 AM, June 15th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

good satisfied sighs

Sighs matters

Happy Dad's day gents. Anyone can be a father - real men are Dad's.

Looks like a promising day - tractors and chainsaws, barbecue and beer. Ahhhh...


Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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Ascendant
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Default  Posted: 9:26 AM, June 15th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Have a great day to all you Father's out there. It's an occasionally thankless job, but the most important one I'll ever have. In honor of that fact, here are the first things I texted my dad this morning.
Enjoy your day, gents.


"The thing that always seems to be shocking to wayward wives is the simple fact that the man you choose to reconcile with is not the same man you cheated on." - a friend.

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LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 12:01 PM, June 15th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Cheers, and Happy Father's Day, fellers!

Beauty day here!


"I would rather take a punch than not give you a shot. I'd rather find out who you are than who you're not."

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Neithan
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Default  Posted: 12:18 PM, June 15th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"What does a man do? A man provides for his family. They will always be his priority, his responsibility. And a man provides. And he does it even when he's not appreciated or respected or even loved. He simply bears up and he does it. Because he's a man."

Gustavo Fring

Okay, maybe good old Gus didn't walk the walk, but he talked the talk.

Happy Father's Day, guys.


Me: BH
Her: WW
D-Day: 2/19/2010
Married 1981
That which does not kill me makes me more irritable

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yearsofpain25
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Default  Posted: 1:15 PM, June 15th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Father's Day gentlemen! Hope everyone is enjoying your day.

yop


25 years and counting of pain caused by mother's infidelity. Aftermath: 1 deceased sibling, 1 lost family, 3 lost souls.
"Each new day I am just glad to be alive and have survived all that I did." Ashland13

Posts: 1869 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Northeast US
atsenaotie
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Default  Posted: 1:34 PM, June 15th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

One son is out of town at school and texted me Happy Fathers day and that he is working a long shift today so could not call. Younger son is at a friend's fathers day cookout. I cannot blame him for wanting to be out of the house. I am doing fatherly things to befit the day: maintenance on the lawn mower, ordering parts for truck repair, paying bills, and catching up on household chores.

Mostly, I am feeling lonely today.


LTA BS 53
M 1990, dday 10-5-09
Separated and Divorcing

Posts: 4089 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: FL
5454real
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Default  Posted: 1:45 PM, June 15th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending you Mojo Ats.

Honestly? Doing much the same here. Long road trip this coming week. Lot's of prep work. Maintenance, etc


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2581 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 4:01 PM, June 15th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Emailed my son about celebrating my big birthday this AM/ Still waiting for a response or a call. He's been saying he'll sell me a spare phono cartridge for weeks.

Ah, well. DIL will make him call me this evening. Still, I'm annoyed.

For myself, I'm about to start working on my bicycle - cleaning the chain, replacing the rear derailleur - out with Campy, in with Suntour. (Doc's order has kept me off the bike so far this year.) I may even put a bunch of stuff on the 'bay....

Good day overall, though.


fBH (me) - 65+, fWW (her) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 9773 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
atsenaotie
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Default  Posted: 4:10 PM, June 15th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi sisoon,
Happy Birthday

I recently changed a rear derailleur after the spokes of the rear wheel ate it up. Changed a rear wheel too. I like fixing what I can.

Do you use a "tool" to run the chain through to clean. or take it off and shake it in a soda bottle?

--Ats


LTA BS 53
M 1990, dday 10-5-09
Separated and Divorcing

Posts: 4089 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: FL
LAFA
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Default  Posted: 6:15 PM, June 15th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Also wishing a Happy Father's Day to all the menz here. Too many hours at the job to be here much of late, but still very grateful this forum and you guys are here.


When you put someone on a pedestal, they quickly learn two things. The view is mighty good from up there, and it is a fine vantage from which to kick.

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fireguy87
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Default  Posted: 7:14 PM, June 15th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Father's Day to all the Menz!!

Hope your day went well and you got to enjoy your day with your children regardless of age.

Regardless of where you currently are within your marriage and the situation you have found yourself in, always strive to be the best role model for your children to admire and follow as they grow older. They will always look to build their own strengths in life by learning from yours.


Me - FBH
Happened many years ago
Reconciled

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stilllovingher
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Default  Posted: 8:17 PM, June 15th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Fathers Day , everyone.
My father's day gift was a six pack of craft brews I have yet to try, I dig it. Here's #1
Enjoy the weekend all.


The only difference between a butt kisser and a brown noser is depth perception.
I'm sure WAL would agree.

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