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User Topic: Betrayed Men Part 20
sunsetslost
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Default  Posted: 4:39 PM, June 11th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nothing ruins outdoor drinking like golf. Nothing.


Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.

Posts: 747 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: The beach.
64fleet
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Default  Posted: 5:02 PM, June 11th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'd have to agree, sunsets-I'm not into pasture pool either. I guess I'm too low brow for it.


time wounds all heels

Posts: 5394 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: deliverance land
SWAT70
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Default  Posted: 5:02 PM, June 11th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Gents. It's been awhile so I thought I would stop in and say hello.

sunset. I would agree except outdoor drinking doesn't ruin my golf game. It only makes it better.

Some changes have occurred lately and OM is an shit stain, fucktard of a co@$ sucker. But I'm getting stronger and feeling better everyday. I have a lot of you to thank for that.


Me BH-45. WW-39
DD-11 DS-6 DS-3
D day was Valentines day 2014. Talk about a trigger.

Divorce was filed, but I'm willing to give her one more chance. I'm watching.


Posts: 329 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: Down range
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 6:37 PM, June 11th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Have you ever been sober playing golf with people who have drunk way too much?

Never again.


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10065 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
yearsofpain25
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Default  Posted: 7:10 PM, June 11th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi SWAT, good to see you out. Keep the safety on...or don't.

Ahhhhh drinking sports. Now there's a topic.


25 years and counting of pain caused by mother's infidelity. Aftermath: 1 deceased sibling, 1 lost family, 3 lost souls.
"Each new day I am just glad to be alive and have survived all that I did." Ashland13

Posts: 2060 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Northeast US
Tred
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Default  Posted: 7:27 PM, June 11th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Golf is an excuse to go drinking. And drinking is an excuse for my golf game. Perfect symbiosis.

Getting ready for a 3 day tourney at my club. Beer will be consumed, shots will be made and missed, women and children shall cry! Well, maybe not the last part


Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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outside4me
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Default  Posted: 8:18 PM, June 11th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Agree about the wooden woods... I seemed to hit them better than I do my newer metal woods. Also, I miss the sound. Akin to the sound of a wooden bat vs. aluminum: something gets lost in the translation.

Any sport that you can drink while participating is ok in my book. Bowling is good that way, too. I'll never forget my first round of golf, when beer cart came rolling up. A hottie jumps out with beers at the ready. Brilliant! Also, I find the more I drink the better I become. Get outta my own head and relax. Just grip and rip, baby!


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jjct
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Default  Posted: 8:37 PM, June 11th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No, I'm older than you and I still don't understand the nomenclature Sal. I'm glad you and uncle tred share these things though, sounds like you're in some kinda club?

It is one of the first compensation items a WS must do in that process. NC mental and otherwise with OP forever.

Thank you for that numb and not so dumb
"a compensation item"

You just said somethin somethin that made my ears ring. A compensation item. Made my ears ring.
To that somethin somethin
that Ascendat clearly posted bout what wal said.
WWs.

It didn't break me my friend.
It FIRMED ME.
In my decision
to walk away,
amen.


Posts: 6572 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
sunsetslost
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Default  Posted: 8:41 PM, June 11th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Golf is an excuse to go drinking. And drinking is an excuse for my golf game. Perfect symbiosis.

True story: Last time I played I was even through 3. Ran out of beer. Kicked it around a while. Buddy got more beer. Another par. My score after 9? A billion. But four pars.


Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.

Posts: 747 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: The beach.
mike7
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Default  Posted: 8:48 PM, June 11th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

don't feel bad that no one acknowledged you SWAT. that's one of the benefits of the Menz club, we all have a stupid, ***** ww. So we know what you're going through without having to acknowledge it. Yeah.. I read about your OM. I'd be seriously pissed right now. More importantly, I think he's dangerous. He's obsessive and won't take no for an answer and refuses to be ignored. And he's a former cop. Not a good combination.

On the lighter side, wish I was out golfing with you guys. I guess a run and workout will have to do for now.

[This message edited by mike7 at 10:56 PM, June 11th (Wednesday)]


BH 53
WW 52
Two kids 21, 18

DDay 1/15/2013


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sunsetslost
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Default  Posted: 9:01 PM, June 11th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh shit mike7. You may have just started something. The inaugural Menz Invitational Golf Tournament. I give us 3 holes max. 4 with proper hydration.


Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.

Posts: 747 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: The beach.
DefiledRage
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Default  Posted: 10:29 PM, June 11th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You know what beer is called while golfing right? ......... .


Aiming oil


Also applies to horseshoes and skeet shooting.


M:14yrs
Dday 1 EA 7/8/2010
Dday 2 PA 3/1/2013 same OMM for 4yrs

Mister rabbit says, "A moment of realization is worth a thousand prayers."


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5454real
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Default  Posted: 10:43 PM, June 11th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

SWAT, agreed, he is. I know I don't need to say this, but watch your back brother. He doesn't have too much to lose at this point. He's escalating.

Is it a coincidence that beer and golf are four letter words?


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2823 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
WearingTheHorns
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Default  Posted: 10:45 PM, June 11th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hey, I've played golf before! The course was rather short. And made of green carpet. And I only had a putter. But I rocked the fucking windmill hole!


Dday: over a period of three days 11/14-16/2012.
EA/PA: ~ 2 1/2 years
EA/beginning PA: ~ 10 months

"What God has joined together, let man... no man put asunder" -Pastor at our wedding concluding the ceremony
2 Cor 12:9-10


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Twotimesucker
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Default  Posted: 11:41 PM, June 11th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Drinking and golfing? Works great for me on the front nine lmao!

SWAT!!!! Great to see you here! That POS OM must have a death wish! How's the new tatt healing? I read about the laser removal...I heard that hurts like a mofo, true?


Me BS-45
Her WW-36
D-Day3/31/14
Working towards R

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lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 1:48 AM, June 12th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks guys!
Wife woke this am and apologized for her behavior. She realizes the selfishness, just wondering if it ever ends. Today was great! Spent time snorkeling and drinking and eating with family. This place is paradise, just wish everyone could calibrate their brain to this fact. Some people can't be happy unless it's all about them, others slip
And then realize. My W realized late last night she was an insufferable selfish pain, so we are one step closer.
Hope you all are well!
Tomorrow deep sea fishing with dad and DS. Guys day!


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

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jjct
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Default  Posted: 4:17 AM, June 12th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When we're together, my crew...we just tell people we're a drinking club with a chess problem...

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Twotimesucker
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Default  Posted: 7:03 AM, June 12th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

LHAP - good news! My W also had similar revelations about her wanting to go to the staff party where POS would be present. Almost feels like progress doesn't it

Deep sea fishing, one of my true passions in life. I try to hit Cabo a couple of times a year and chase Marlin, tuna and mahi. Have an awesome time on the water and let us all know how you did!

Peace to all.


Me BS-45
Her WW-36
D-Day3/31/14
Working towards R

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Twotimesucker
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Default  Posted: 7:03 AM, June 12th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

DP...damn iPad!
Peace to all.

[This message edited by Twotimesucker at 7:05 AM, June 12th (Thursday)]


Me BS-45
Her WW-36
D-Day3/31/14
Working towards R

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outside4me
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Default  Posted: 9:48 AM, June 12th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

jjct: lol I envision brandy and cigars, with thoughtful beard stroking.

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