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User Topic: Last night in the marital home
kg201
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Default  Posted: 11:15 AM, May 16th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So last night was my last night in the marital home, which still needs a bit more work before going on the market. Tonight I will be in my new place for the first time. Someone asked me if I felt nostalgic last night and I don't think that was the feeling. I lived there for 8 years...the longest I have lived anywhere my whole life. I don't feel particularly attached to it, and maybe now I will stop having those noghtmares about the basement flooding all the time (water issues suck).

So what am I feeling? Tired is probably the closest I can come to what the feeling is. Just tired.

I think my kids were feeling it a bit this morning, because the next time it is my custody day they will be in the new place with me. Hopefully I'll have the beds set up by next week.


Me: BH, 39
Her: WW, 40
Together 18 years, married 15+
LTA 3.5 years, ongoing
Dday: 7/28/13
Divorcing, 3 children
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"There can be no friendship without confidence, and no confidence without integrity." -S

Posts: 725 | Registered: Aug 2013
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 11:19 AM, May 16th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay for moving into your new place!


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


Posts: 25774 | Registered: Aug 2011
5454real
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Member # 37455
Default  Posted: 11:32 AM, May 16th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just a thought

Hopefully I'll have the beds set up by next week.

Instead, have them help to the best of their abilities. Give them a sense of ownership.

Damned glad to see emerging from the gates of hell.


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2995 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
one2ndchance
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Member # 14759
Default  Posted: 11:59 AM, May 16th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was in my marital home for 24 years, and moved out a year ago. It is now in danger of being burned down in the San Diego County fires. I feel nothing. To me, it's just wood and stucco.

The good memories of that home are in my heart, the bad are etched in my mind.


Me: BW 59
Him: STBXWH 61
Married: 25 years
DDay1: 2/2002; DDay2: 6/2012
Gave him his second chance and he blew it.
Divorcing

Posts: 479 | Registered: May 2007 | From: California
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