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User Topic: For those hurting on Mother's Day
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 1:21 PM, May 10th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

For the moms of angel babies.
For the moms who have buried their children.
For the moms who are estranged from their kids.
For those who want to be moms but aren't.
For those who mourn their mothers.
For those who have complex or estranged relationships with their mothers.

Sending peace and comfort to all who hurt on Mother's Day.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


Posts: 25835 | Registered: Aug 2011
LosferWords
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Member # 30369
Default  Posted: 2:00 PM, May 10th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((all who hurt on Mother's Day)))))

Posts: 7621 | Registered: Dec 2010
MovingUpward
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Member # 14866
Default  Posted: 3:28 PM, May 10th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((hugs to all)))


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 52730 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 3:50 PM, May 10th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you. It's a hard day for me.

Hugs to others.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7781 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 3:50 PM, May 10th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Duplicate.

Double hugs to all.

[This message edited by Williesmom at 3:51 PM, May 10th (Saturday)]


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7781 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
Guinness23
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Member # 42852
Default  Posted: 4:06 PM, May 10th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you.

Mom deceased 2008
ExMIL I still love suffering from Alzheimers.

I never became one and wanted to be one

.....BUT I AM a dogmom!


Me 47
ExH 43
Divorced 2010

47 is the new year of treating myself better than I have in 6 years.

What ever doesn't kill me makes me stronger so long as I remember that

My favorite drink is no longer Guinness but water. Call me Dasani23


Posts: 592 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: Indiana
still2suspicious
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Default  Posted: 5:04 PM, May 10th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Very nice, nik.

2 of our children have chosen to be estranged from us for quite a while now (controlling spouses )

All holidays hurt, but Mother's Day hurts like hell!!!!

Just like spouses, you can't control your kids either.

Sending hugs to Moms with angel babies and children.

And women who would have loved to be a Mom, but for whatever God's reasons are not. My heart goes out to you.


Me: BS
Him: WH
DDay: LTEA

Posts: 1306 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From:
Whalers11
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Default  Posted: 5:40 PM, May 10th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you, NIK.

For reasons I can't get into in OT, Mother's Day is a rough day for me. People don't really understand...glad I have SI.


Me: BGF - 33
Together 11+ years - not married, no children.
D-Day: 2/9/2010
OC Born: 10/9/2010
Status: He chose OW/OC and left immediately.

Posts: 2262 | Registered: Feb 2010
k94ever
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Member # 11176
Default  Posted: 7:42 PM, May 10th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks guys.

Estranged from my kids. And now I'm finding that days go by and I don't even think of them.


k9


BS: 56
WS: 53
Betrayed: 23 years
Affairs: 14 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.

Posts: 6585 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: Wisconsin
woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 7:57 PM, May 10th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Big hugs)))

It's a mixed bag for me. This is my third Mothers' Day without my mom. Miss her so much.


Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7827 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 8:21 PM, May 10th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((those hurting)))

Posts: 36031 | Registered: Mar 2011
JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 11:25 PM, May 10th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you. I am so lucky to have one perfect daughter. I am so sad & bitter for the babies I've lost.


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 4-year-old daughter.

Posts: 6832 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Somewhere in the South
5454real
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Default  Posted: 12:02 AM, May 11th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks NIK.

For those with angel babies. Hugs. I am sorry.


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 3022 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
Bluebird26
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Default  Posted: 1:32 AM, May 11th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you, I need this today.


"Loving someone should not mean losing you. Love empowers you. It shouldn't erase you. - Thelma Davis.

Posts: 1363 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
SBB
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Default  Posted: 3:11 AM, May 11th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just beautiful NIK.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5618 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
Smashedat58
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Default  Posted: 7:28 AM, May 11th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A mother's love goes very deep. I lost my mother over 29 years, ago, and I still love/miss her. Because I carry this knowledge of her impact on me, I try to give my children the best I have to offer them, they will carry me with them in their hearts forever, too.

Posts: 166 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Upstate New York
pmr411
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Default  Posted: 7:37 AM, May 11th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Missing my mom who passed on November 28,13. This is my first Mother's Day without her. We were so very close and I feel such a void in my life. My husband has been so supportive and loving. I am thankful for him and his emotional support. Looking forward to spending the day with my husband and 12 year old daughter.

Posts: 70 | Registered: Oct 2010
deena04
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Default  Posted: 7:48 AM, May 11th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Beautiful! I am blessed with my kids, but I am also mother to many other kids that have needed one throughout the years. A mother is a nurturing, caring, compassionate, yet tough "tell you what you need to hear with love" kind of person. It doesn't have to be blood to be mom!


Me BS mid-late 30s
Him WS knocking on 40 (lovemywife4ever)
blended family with lots of kiddos
together 5 years, married 8/13
D day 12/1/13
WH ONS had been 4/12
Getting ME back and moving to HAPPY - whatever that means
I want...I have no idea

Posts: 1125 | Registered: Dec 2013
devasted30
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Default  Posted: 9:17 AM, May 11th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hugs to everyone!


And remember Murphy is right. Nothing is so bad that it can't get worse!!!

Posts: 1335 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Ontario, Canada
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 1:14 PM, May 11th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Hugs to all)))

I am estranged from my Mother for various reasons... I'm sure she misses me, but for my own sanity I must remain detached.

I morn with all who wanted to be mothers but it didn't happen... and those who have angel babies.


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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