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User Topic: Heartbreaking quote
Lovedyoumore
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Default  Posted: 10:33 PM, May 9th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Marriages and hearts will break when another woman makes your husband smile."

This quote takes my breath and makes my chest hurt. How many of us are so frustrated that something as simple as a smile started the pain we now know? That is all it took. A smile.


Me 52
WH 52
Married 30+ years
Together trying to R

I tell people I am tired but really my heart is broken and I am sad.


Posts: 1585 | Registered: May 2012 | From: Southern, bless your heart
justinpaintoday
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Default  Posted: 10:41 PM, May 9th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good quote....sucks but a good quote.


I never realized you could be in this much pain and not be dying.

Posts: 700 | Registered: Mar 2014
DepressedDaddy
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Default  Posted: 10:42 PM, May 9th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

For my WW, the MOM provided an extra ear, because he knew what he was going to get if he offered that up.


Since D I have become DDaddy 2.0 - or better known as DevotedDaddy

“Optimism is a strategy for making a better future. Because unless you believe that the future can be better, you are unlikely to step up and take responsibility for making it so."


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SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 3:49 AM, May 10th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, sheesh, yeah, really stabby to my heart! So true. I am sure this is the way it all started for FWH.


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9952 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
lovedmesomehim
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Default  Posted: 3:53 AM, May 10th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ugh.. . So simple, yet so true.

Posts: 470 | Registered: Oct 2009
yearsofpain25
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Default  Posted: 7:51 AM, May 10th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


25 years and counting of pain caused by mother's infidelity. Aftermath: 1 deceased sibling, 1 lost family, 3 lost souls.
"Each new day I am just glad to be alive and have survived all that I did." Ashland13

Posts: 2351 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Northeast US
Merlin
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Default  Posted: 7:53 AM, May 10th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If all it took was a smile or an ear, the inevitable was already inevitable.


"I never saw a wild thing sorry for itself. A bird will fall frozen dead from a bough without ever having felt sorry for itself." D. H. Lawrence

Her: WW/57 Me: BS/63 24yrs M
3 great kids, now 22, 20, 17 b,b,g
D-Day 8/14/08, D 1/13/11


Posts: 1164 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: East Coast
SBB
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Default  Posted: 8:44 AM, May 10th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I counter that with "A good man can't be stolen."


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5660 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 8:56 AM, May 10th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"A good man can't be stolen."
I disagree strongly. A good man can be a "broken" man.


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9952 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
DTERMINED2SURVIV
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Default  Posted: 9:06 AM, May 10th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A good man can be a "broken" man

Completely agree. I dont understand it, but im living next to proof daily.




Posts: 272 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Where theres lots of southern HOEspitality
2oldforthis
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Default  Posted: 10:28 AM, May 10th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My WH OW signal was a wink. Oh how I hate winks.


He did not see what he had in me, what I saw in him I did not have!

Love kills slowly.


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Raven96
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Default  Posted: 10:54 AM, May 10th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I agree with Merlin...absolutely 100%!


Marriage isn't a test, so why cheat?

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PhoenixStorm
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Default  Posted: 5:38 AM, May 12th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I agree with Merlon also. A faithful and loving spouse wouldn't go there. I know, cause I get that sometimes. You can smile back and go on with your life, you don't have to act on it. It's a choice they make. It's not Fate.


BS UNSUSPECTING FOOL 54
WH BECAUSE I'M THE MAN AND I GET TO DO WHAT I WANT 46
OW The weakest of the pack 41
DDay: 2/20/12 The most out of control day of my life
Trying to R - TRYING
UPDATE 5-10-14 OVER WITH IT!
DDAY2 5-10-14
Divorced 8/19/14

Posts: 74 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: In a state
RedRaven6500
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Default  Posted: 6:03 AM, May 12th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Totally agree Merlin. If you would have given that smile and ear at home, you would have received it in kind. Also there is nothing wrong with giving that to someone outside of your marriage as long as you respect boundaries. My fWH always prided himself on being that person, and I did too, until he began to use it for other than helping others in a plutonic way.


BW: Me 42, WH: Him 42, Married: 22 years
DD: 21, DS: 20 both in college
DDay: 22 Oct 2011
Year PAs/EAs started: 2004, possibly 2003
OW: 3 serious long-distance PA/EA's, several casual PA's, some at the same time. Classy
In R

Posts: 129 | Registered: Jun 2013
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 7:35 AM, May 12th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think some of you are missing the point of the quote. We aren't talking about a smile you give to any Joe Shmoe on the street. We aren't even talking about smiling at someone, necessarily. We are talking about a woman who makes your husband smile when the fucking woman isn't even there physically, but in your spouse's mind and then they smile.


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9952 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
Ostrich80
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Default  Posted: 12:48 PM, May 12th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Exactly Sister!


BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

Posts: 5242 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
StillGoing
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Default  Posted: 12:58 PM, May 12th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I guess it's a good thing they cancelled 30 Rock then.


"You have insulted my footwear."

Posts: 7576 | Registered: May 2010 | From: USA
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 1:26 PM, May 12th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

^^^^ ^^^^^^^^^^^^


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9952 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
Hannah25
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Default  Posted: 3:37 PM, May 12th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ahhh, that quote caused a physical reaction. My chest tightened up.

I never thought that he would look that way at someone else...


ME: 35
WBF: 44
Together 11 years
DDay: 1/12/14
DDay2: 3/28/14

Posts: 64 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Ohio
Chicky
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Default  Posted: 3:52 PM, May 12th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hmmm...I'm not sure what to think. The fOW in my sitch was nicknamed "Yuckmouth" in high school and to this day, she's done nothing to rectify it.


There's a difference between giving up and knowing when you've had enough.

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