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Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 12:49 PM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh Jana. I'm so sorry.

Be gentle with yourself.

We're here for you. Anything you need. Just say the word.

(((((Jana)))))


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

"What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, what if you fly?


Posts: 6287 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
ItsaClimb
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Default  Posted: 1:14 PM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So, so sorry Jana. Sending you big hugs.


BS 46
Together 29 yrs, M 25 years
2 daughters 24yo(married with a brand new little daughter) & 19yo
D-Day 18 Aug 2012
6mth EA lead to 4mth PA with CO-W. I found out 8 1/2 yrs later

Posts: 1018 | Registered: Oct 2012
yewtree
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Default  Posted: 1:23 PM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Jana,
I'm thinking of you. (((Jana)))


Me(BS)45(at the time of D-day)

Divorced 2009, Closing on house Nov 2011 -
No longer waiting for the other "she" to drop.


Posts: 4692 | Registered: Oct 2007
peacelovetea
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Default  Posted: 6:52 PM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry, hon. {{hugs}}


BW, SAHM
D-Day: 6/5/09, drunken ONS on business trip, confessed immediately, transparent, remorseful but emotionally clueless
M 11 years, 3 kids
4/12 Tried to R for 3 years, have decided to D
12/31/12 D final

Posts: 542 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: PacNW
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 7:33 PM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((((((Jana)))))))))

Posts: 11742 | Registered: Mar 2008
betrayedfriend
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Default  Posted: 8:02 PM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry Jana.


I originally joined SI as a way to help my best friends find ways of coping with infidelity, but now infidelity has touched my family much closer to home.

Posts: 867 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Midwest USA
solus sto
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Default  Posted: 12:54 PM, May 8th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Jana)))) I'm so sorry.


BS-me, 52
WH (Trac-fone), 53, PD
2 kids-DD25, DS18
multiple d-days
DIVORCING
Alone, most strangely, I live on~Rupert Brooke

Posts: 8827 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: midwest
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 2:27 PM, May 8th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Jana))) I'm so sorry for your loss.


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24587 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
confused615
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Default  Posted: 2:28 PM, May 8th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just saw this. Im so very sorry.


(((((janagreen)))))


BS(me)42
FWH 45
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
Status: Reconciling?

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


Posts: 7668 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Indiana
landabear
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Default  Posted: 3:16 PM, May 8th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry Jana. Please be gentle and patient with yourself.


BS
Divorced: March 2006
Married to a wonderful, FAITHFUL man: October 2009

Posts: 741 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Midwest
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 6:56 PM, May 8th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((((((Jana))))))))

I'm so sorry.


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5249 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
risingfromashes
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Default  Posted: 7:17 PM, May 8th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry for your loss Jana


There is life on the other side of hell.

Posts: 1664 | Registered: Mar 2004
stronggirl72
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Default  Posted: 7:36 PM, May 8th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, Jana. I'm sending lots of strength and healing to you right now. Get as much rest as you can, and allow yourself to go through the bevy of emotions that come with this. I am not sure if this is something that works for you, but I find that writing in a journal helps a lot. Thinking of you.

(((((((((((Jana))))))))))))


"Taking the high road, and doing it with class."

DIVORCED!!


Posts: 154 | Registered: Oct 2012
Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 7:37 PM, May 8th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You've been on my mind all day Jana.

Sending prayers and strength.


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

"What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, what if you fly?


Posts: 6287 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 8:36 PM, May 8th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

According to the ultrasound I had today, I already passed the baby at some point. I wanted to do a D&C so we could get genetic testing on the baby , but no baby = no testing. I opted for misoprostol. I am lying here waiting for it to start working. Pretty apprehensive but I have lots of pain meds on hand.


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 4-year-old daughter.

Posts: 6802 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Somewhere in the South
cayc
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Default  Posted: 8:45 PM, May 8th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((janagreen)))


"The difference between involvement and commitment is like ham and eggs. The chicken is involved, the pig is committed." -Martina Navratilova
"The question isn't who is going to let me; it's who is going to stop me." -Ayn Rand

Posts: 3118 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Mexico
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 11:55 PM, May 8th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry Jana.

Sending you so many hugs and so much love tonight.


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

Posts: 17758 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 12:13 AM, May 9th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Jana))))

I am so very sorry, Jana.


Posts: 7463 | Registered: Dec 2010
Thera77
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Default  Posted: 1:18 AM, May 9th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((Jana)))))

So, very sorry. Sending lots and lots of hugs to you.


Me 32, FWH 34 M 8.5 yrs @ A
Dday: 9/15/09 TT & limbo 'til 10/19/09 + 'pregnancy'
R'ing
Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.

Posts: 465 | Registered: Jun 2010 | From: my front porch you can see the sea
ThisHell
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Default  Posted: 7:50 AM, May 9th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh Lord! I am so sorry Jana! I cannot even imagine everything you are going through and my thoughts and prayers are on you today luv...



Me:BW, 34/Him:BH, 34/ 3 boys, 5,8,12
4ddays, now Divorced
We are not in Kansas anymore

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