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User Topic: Heavy bleeding in first trimester/miscarriage?
itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 12:14 PM, May 2nd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Grow, Tiny Bean, Grow!!!!


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 1:03 PM, May 2nd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Jana)))

I hope this is bean's way of giving you a hard time now, so that s/he's teen years will be easy. Sending you strength, mojo, and sticky dust.


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GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 1:56 PM, May 2nd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((( Jana and Greenbean )))

You and yours are in my thoughts, hon.


Me - 40s
SorryInSac - WH#2 - 40s. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4yrs, together 7yrs total

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
5 Furkids (3 Dogs, 2 Cats)

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW)
Legally married 18yrs, together 16.5yrs

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Posts: 6094 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
Lalagirl
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Default  Posted: 2:26 PM, May 2nd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just read this, Jana.

Hang in there, sweetie - gosh, why does this have to be so daunting? As if you have not been through enough.

I am adding SCH absorption on top of greenbean sticky vibes.

Hugs!!!!


Me - 49; FWH - 51
Married 30 years 9/2/13
2 grown daughters-30 & 26
5yo GS & 18 mo. GD & GB #4 due 8/14(DD30) and 2yo GD(DD26). D-day #1 - 1/06; D-day #2 - 3/07
Reconciled! Construction Complete.

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JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 2:34 PM, May 2nd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks lala. I just can't seem to catch a break, but at least my baby's still hanging in there!


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 4-year-old daughter.

Posts: 6564 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Somewhere in the South
wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 12:51 AM, May 5th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just checking in on our greenbean.

And with my third (the previa baby), I had a clot that had been there so long, I was told it had calcified.

Keep growing, baby greenbean!


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

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tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 8:08 AM, May 5th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Jana? How's the bean?


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

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JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 12:12 PM, May 5th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hey ladies, I am doing good, baby is good AFAIK. Still bleeding but doc told me to expect that. I still "feel pregnant," and the bleeding, while it picked up some yesterday, is not as bad today. My H was worried about me going to work today but quite frankly I feel more cheerful with something to do than lying around worrying and googling. My husband has been doing a great job taking care of me, cooking, cleaning, running to the store, making me sit down, expressing concern. I think the bleeding scared him in a way that the silent miscarriages didn't.

I go back Friday for a scan. I'm just trying to think positive thoughts. This little one is a fighter. I'm hoping at this scan s/he will be bigger than the clot.

ETA: Wildbananas, what on earth do they do in the case of a calcified clot?? Oh my!

[This message edited by JanaGreen at 1:06 PM, May 5th (Monday)]


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 4-year-old daughter.

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wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 3:40 PM, May 5th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

There was a part of the placenta that kept detaching and reattaching and that's where the clot was. I don't think it was seen until she was born, though? That I can't remember for sure.


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

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JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 3:41 PM, May 5th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Did it come out when she was born or did you have to have surgery? Sorry, I am for some reason morbidly fascinated by this!


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 4-year-old daughter.

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wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 3:46 PM, May 5th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It was rather interesting.

Lots of gory details but in summary, I had a complete abruption (where the placenta came completely detached) at 29 weeks and they saw it then. (I had a crash c-section.)

I think they knew about the clot beforehand via all the ultrasounds I had but not that it was to that point. I think. This was almost 15 years ago and I'm oldish.

[This message edited by wildbananas at 3:47 PM, May 5th (Monday)]


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

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ItsaClimb
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Default  Posted: 2:17 AM, May 6th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thinking of you JanaGreen. Hoping and praying that all will be well.


BS 46
Together 29 yrs, M 25 years
2 daughters 24yo(married with a brand new little daughter) & 19yo
D-Day 18 Aug 2012
6mth EA lead to 4mth PA with CO-W. I found out 8 1/2 yrs later

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 9:09 AM, May 6th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Jana)))

Sending good thoughts your way. Grow, baby bean. Grow.


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Mack9512
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Default  Posted: 10:20 AM, May 6th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Jana & baby))

I didn't have any bleeding during my pregnancy with DD8, however she was small from the get go. She grew normally until about the 8th week and we were sure that we were going to have miscarriage number 8 or 9. It wasn't until around month 5 that ultrasounds started showing that my amniotic fluid was extremely low. After many, many tests I was diagnosed with Factor V Leiden, i.e. the blood in the smaller blood vessels in my body, most especially the placenta, clotted way too easily and interfered with amniotic fluid production. I had to shoot myself up every day with Heparin after diagnosis. I looked like a drug addict but DD continued to grow. I still had issues with my levels and was put on partial bed rest, but she continued to grow slowly. I spent a lot of time in and out of the hospital but every week past week 20 was a miracle to me and my doctors. At 34 weeks my doctor said "put a fork in her she's done". DD was born weighing only 3 lbs.

So to make a long story slightly longer... I know it is scary and all but small babies inside quite regularly become small babies outside.

Mack

[This message edited by Mack9512 at 10:23 AM, May 6th (Tuesday)]


"If you're brave enough to say goodbye, life will reward you with a new hello." - Paulo Coehlo

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JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 1:17 AM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I had some heavy bleeding/clotting this afternoon so I went to the ER. Unfortunately it's a loss. The ultrasound tech said it was the worst SCH she had ever seen. The sac was there but misshapen and no heartbeat. Thanks for your support through all of this. It hasn't really hit me yet, I'm pretty numb.


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 4-year-old daughter.

Posts: 6564 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Somewhere in the South
BreatheAgain10
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Default  Posted: 1:23 AM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh no Jana! I'm so sad and sorry you have to go thru this.
((((HUGS))))


By God's blessing we've survived, but the scars are still tender to the touch.
BW: Me 34yrs FWH: 29yrs
Latest D-Day 04/29/2010
Together: 12yrs Married: 10yrs
DS:16yrs DS:9yrs. DS:Due 6/25/14
Main D-Day that hurts is #4 4/29/10
OW=Yuck!

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bbee
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Default  Posted: 1:34 AM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry, Jana. Big hugs to you and your family.


This above all: to thine ownself be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.

Hamlet, Act I, Scene 3

Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.

All's Well That Ends Well, Act I, Scene 1


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Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 1:59 AM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh Jana. I am so deeply sorry. ((((HUGS))))


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9313 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
rachelc
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Default  Posted: 8:54 AM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((janagreen)) I'm so sorry. I hope someone is taking good care of you!


his Ddays: 2/10, 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12

me: 48
him: 51
4 kiddos in lower 20's

ôSlide the weight from your shoulders and move forward. You are afraid you might forget, but you never will. You will forgive and remember."


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Whalers11
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Default  Posted: 9:04 AM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry, Jana.


Me: BGF - 33
Together 11+ years - not married, no children.
D-Day: 2/9/2010
OC Born: 10/9/2010
Status: He chose OW/OC and left immediately.

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