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User Topic: Today is a good day
knockeddown
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Default  Posted: 5:20 PM, April 27th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Went to church (the focus was on being a man versus being a boy), took my daughter to a dog festival for a few hours, went to salsa dancing class for the first time, ran a 10k for the first time, and grilling out with a friend tonight.

I can get used to the single life, after all.


Me- BS 27 Always faithful
Her- WS 28
2 mo.? PA
Married 5 years (lived together 9)
2-year-old daughter
DDay-3/15/2014
Separated - living apart

Posts: 103 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: United States
justinpaintoday
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Default  Posted: 5:25 PM, April 27th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good for you. Just completed the Dennis Rainey 10 week series on Manhood. Good stuff. It is getting harder and harder to "man-up" in our culture. Being a boy is so acceptable.

Glad to hear you are adjusting and spending time with the kids.


I never realized you could be in this much pain and not be dying.

Posts: 700 | Registered: Mar 2014
knockeddown
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Default  Posted: 5:33 PM, April 27th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It is getting harder and harder to "man-up" in our culture.

So. True. By the time a man is 21 nowadays, he has played over 10,000 hours of video games and watches over 50 porn videos a week. It is time to man-up in our culture. I am going to grow into an even better man because of what I have been through. Was I the best man before? No. I can learn from my mistakes and be even better of a man.


Me- BS 27 Always faithful
Her- WS 28
2 mo.? PA
Married 5 years (lived together 9)
2-year-old daughter
DDay-3/15/2014
Separated - living apart

Posts: 103 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: United States
justinpaintoday
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Member # 42858
Default  Posted: 6:52 PM, April 27th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good for you. Those kids will see a Godly man and hold you in the highest regard.


I never realized you could be in this much pain and not be dying.

Posts: 700 | Registered: Mar 2014
tremble
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Default  Posted: 7:55 PM, April 27th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good for you! I think part of the problem in our culture and "manning up" is there is no defining moment for men to say "I am a man now". There is no ritual that marks that passage from putting away childish things and taking on the responsibilities of manhood. Come on guys! Come up with a ritual for our sons so they can know when to man up!


You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf. Joseph Campbell

Posts: 59 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: United States
norabird
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Default  Posted: 8:30 PM, April 27th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow! What a good day indeed!


Sit. Feast on your life.

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