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User Topic: Said Goodbye to an Old Friend Today
deeplysad
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Default  Posted: 1:46 AM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Kuwaited))))

It's never easy, even when we know it's coming.


Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.

It takes all kinds of kinds....Miranda Lambert


Posts: 3227 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: So Calif
sadcat
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Default  Posted: 6:52 AM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She was the sweetest girl- never barked just came up and said hi when she saw you.

I choose to think she is off somewhere sniffing around and trotting along looking for something fun to do. She loved to escape the yard and go on adventures, so that is what she is doing.

Goodbye sweet girl...


I need not suffer in silence while I can still moan, whimper and complain.

If this isn't what I consider soulmate crap, I don't know what is.


Posts: 13227 | Registered: Oct 2005 | From: GA
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 7:42 AM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Kuwaited and gang))))
It is always hard. I teared up just reading this. It's been over a year and a half since I had to say goodbye to my two older dogs, and my sweet kitty. It still hurts.

I agree they are off having the adventure of a lifetime, and not hurting, or struggling. Plus they have all the bones, and food they want.

((((and peace))))


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8218 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 7:45 AM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm very sorry for your loss


I'm sorry if you don't like my Honesty, but to be fair I don't like your lies.

Sometimes it's better to push someone away...not because you stopped loving them but because you can't take the pain anymore.


Posts: 13722 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston
k94ever
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Default  Posted: 10:27 AM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Kuwaited, you did good.

You gave her an incredible life and she loved you. In the end you were there with her; your face was the last thing she saw; your arms were holding her and she was wrapped in your love.

It's harder on us than it is on them. You did the right thing.

You were there for her.

Well done.........

{{{hugs}}}


k9


BS: 56
WS: 53
Betrayed: 23 years
Affairs: 14 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.

Posts: 6512 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: Wisconsin
metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 10:32 AM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry you lost your friend Kuwaited.



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

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abbycadabby
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Default  Posted: 10:32 AM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You gave her an incredible life and she loved you. In the end you were there with her; your face was the last thing she saw; your arms were holding her and she was wrapped in your love.

What a beautiful way to phrase this. I'm just going to echo this sentiment.

I'm sorry.

(((Kuwaited & Sadcat)))


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Kuwaited
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Default  Posted: 8:58 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you all for your thoughts.


I feel her presence still. Anticipating needing to let her out in the morning. Expecting to hear the click/clack of her nails on the hardwood when I open a bag of chips in the kitchen.

She loved to escape the yard and go on adventures, so that is what she is doing.

Oh my…I had forgotten about this! It’s been a while since she did this..but it was a frequent occurrence when she was younger. She’d manage to escape and if we realized it…we went on the hunt in the neighborhood. When we spotted her we’d call her name (when she could still hear)…she’d stop and look around with a mischievous look on her face….and run off in the opposite direction!! At that point we’d give up because she was a people dog and she would walk right up to the next person she saw and they’d inspect her collar tags and call the number. I met a lot of my neighbors that way!!

Funny thing….I was in the garage this past weekend and had left open the back gate when she was in the yard. I looked up and she found her way out on to the driveway and there stood just looking around. 5 years ago….I never would have seen her!! I guess she knew she didn’t have it in her to go on a mock hunt. But at least she got to escape one last time.


"For every trip to the vet, there's a car ride.", Satchel Pooch.

"At some point in life, everyone has gambled on a fart and lost." -- Tad...from Craig's List


Posts: 8487 | Registered: Oct 2004 | From: North Atlanta Burbs
gahurts
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Default  Posted: 10:28 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry you had to say goodbye to a good fur friend. It sounds like she had a very happy life.


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


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