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User Topic: A sign??
hopefulfourus
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Default  Posted: 7:31 PM, April 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So today I began this process.. I mailed in my retainer and signed paperwork!! Instead of doing it first thing today, I kept doing other things, feeling anxious all day. By about 3 o'clock, I got it all ready. About 5 minutes after I sealed the envelope to get the paperwork on its way, I was notified I had won a small raffle where I work. I won an Alex and Ani bracelet! I was so excited as I never win anything. When I picked it up, the saying on the bracelet could not have been more perfect. It was "Live a Happy Life", with words of "courage, appreciation and choice". I want to think that it may have been a small sign that I have made the right choice. It was a nice way to begin my weekend!!


Me: BW. 40's
Him: WH POS. 40's
2 kids. DD16, DS14

Don't let my user name fool you...I am NOT hopeful for us at ALL!!


Posts: 62 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: New York
HurtsButImOK
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Default  Posted: 8:12 PM, April 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a wonderful start! I believe that if we keep ourselves open to the blessings we invite them in.

Keep focused on the positives, you will get through this.


Me: Awesome - 35

"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou

"When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be". –


Posts: 722 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Australia
dmari
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Default  Posted: 9:47 PM, April 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is one BIG, CLEAR and beautiful sign!!


Me (BS): 42 Children: DD 18, DS 15
Settled at mediation
Officially divorced ... SOON!

Posts: 2146 | Registered: Oct 2012
nekorb
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Default  Posted: 9:52 PM, April 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love signs. I always feel like it's a little nod from the universe that I'm on the right path.

Awesome surprise for you!


Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 aka CAT- colossal asshat; Married 22 years
D-day: July 17, 2013, with TT to follow
D filed July 16, 2014, 363 days later than I should have
Psalms 27:14
Wait for The Lord; be strong and take heart. Wait for the Lord.

Posts: 1832 | Registered: Aug 2013
movingforward777
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Happy  Posted: 9:56 PM, April 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations on winning your bracelet! Wear it and take the words to heart in the coming days when things may get tough to deal with. HUGS


You can't reach for anything new if your hands are still full of yesterday's junk.......Louise Smith

Posts: 4839 | Registered: Apr 2005 | From: Ontario
damnUnicorns
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Default  Posted: 10:00 PM, April 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats on winning the raffle. Fun, huh? I know I would definitely consider that a SIGN! How perfect were the sayings?!
I think you should wear it through this difficult time& look at it when you need encouragement.
Big hugs.


Unremorseful WH-48
BW(me)-46
M 26+ years
DS 26, DD 23
H moved out 10/3/12
IN House S, H lost job 2/7/14→now
Dday 1- 3/2002 short EA/PA w-COW
Dday 2- 2/12/14→LTA, H STILL seeing "Bi"MfCOW (OW now S too)!

Posts: 121 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: CA
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