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User Topic: I would date me!
cayc
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Content  Posted: 10:26 AM, April 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Periodically people comment about not being ready to date and how they think they aren't ready and that they wouldn't date themselves so for the record and apologies for my momentary lack of humility but I would date me!!!!!!! I think I'm pretty awesome. I'm a good and loyal friend. I'm in great shape, well educated with a good job, lots of hobbies, intellectually curious and I don't need to be handheld through life or emotionally propped up by someone else. Now if I could just find a guy who's the same ....


"The difference between involvement and commitment is like ham and eggs. The chicken is involved, the pig is committed." -Martina Navratilova
"The question isn't who is going to let me; it's who is going to stop me." -Ayn Rand

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wonderingbull
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Default  Posted: 10:32 AM, April 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Where's that fricken LIKE button when you need it?

WB


The secret of life is enjoying the passage of time...

James Taylor


Posts: 5952 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: A better place
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:38 AM, April 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I couldn't love this more, cayc. YAY!!!


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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hexed
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Default  Posted: 10:49 AM, April 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

cayc you're a rare find. it will take a rare man to deserve you.


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


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libertyrocks
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Default  Posted: 11:22 AM, April 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome! Ditto. Hey, wanna date me bc I'm awesome, too!! lol. Girl date. JK. Good for you!!! So glad you're at a place where you can say this. I know a year and a half ago, I was a trainwreck. lol. Dang, it's so good to be over them.


Me-BW 36. STBXH-35,alcoholic, suspected NPD SA. 2 boys. M 6yrs T13.
DDay #1 Nov, 2012. 1 1/2 year false R & TT. 10 OW PA's 1LTA (all W lied to) 3 years.
S Nov, 2013 again Jan, 2014
Filed for D Feb, 2014.He will cheat again. But, It wont be on me.

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asurvivor
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Default  Posted: 12:13 PM, April 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good on you!!! Love to see positives posts.


I've wiped the shit off. It can be wiped off you know.



Posts: 505 | Registered: Jun 2011
Must Survive
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Default  Posted: 12:16 PM, April 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Excellent Cayc!!!!!


Me BS
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorcing, STBXH is engaged/living with OW#3

They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." — Daenerys Targaryen


Posts: 673 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Must Survive
ProbableIceCream
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Default  Posted: 1:58 PM, April 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: born 1982.
DD: born 2006 (I have abt 80% custody).
My D-Day was April 2012. Divorced Jul 2013.

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Faithful w/Love
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Default  Posted: 4:05 PM, April 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

HEll yeah Cayc. I feel the same damn way. I just never say anything because I don't want to look conceded. But, I am glad I am not the only one that feels this way.

Hell, I am beautiful, pretty fit, I tell truth, You can look at anything of mine because I don't hide anything. I love to cook and I love to cook with the mans help. I love who I am, I love my big heart and that I don't take shit anymore from NO ONE, I have a good job, I am loyal, I don't talk or try to judge anyone. I am independent, I like a challenge (working on things in house, car, ect), And I love to have fun... I love to laugh


BS(ME)40 WH(HIM)38
DD 19 and DS 15
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
False R. Still Lying.
Will be divorcing soon!
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have"!

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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 7:25 PM, April 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'd date you too. I mean that in an uncreepy way...


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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cmego
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Default  Posted: 7:51 PM, April 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I"m with Ama, in a totally uncreepy way too

Wait….does that emoticon make it creepy?


me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced

"For whatever we lose, like a you or a me, it's always ourselves we find in the sea" ee cummings


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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 7:55 PM, April 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Not as creepy as would have.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 9:16 AM, April 5th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I agree with AMA, but I have to add: if you find that guy, make sure he has a brother for me!


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 10:38 AM, April 5th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

if you find that guy, make sure he has a brother for me!

And a younger brother for me....how fun would it be to be sister-in-laws with you lovely ladies. You'd be the best in laws ever.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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better4me
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Default  Posted: 11:20 AM, April 5th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love this. I have a window decal that a friend gave me that says that very thing. Haven't had the courage to put it on my car! But, heck it might be a good way to meet people


Just heard this encouragement the other night from a dating coach regarding finding someone terrific: "If you exist, he exists"


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Divorced

Posts: 3013 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
GotPlayed
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Default  Posted: 8:59 PM, April 5th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Late to this party. But just wanted to say:

Cayc, you rock!


Master of my Fate, Captain of my Soul.
BS 42, WW 41. 18y married
DD: 11/5/13
DS10 Autism, DD8
OM: Reformed wife-beater ex-con
D filed 1/14/14 by WW (never warn them, they'll get ahead)
Married a powder keg

Posts: 606 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: California
StillLivin
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Default  Posted: 1:51 AM, April 6th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pfffft, please! I WISH I could find the male me! I would date him/me so fast. I'd marry him. And I'm NEVER getting married again!
I'm not conceited either. But hell, if my husband had had half the integrity and honor (well then he never would have cheated right) that I have, I could live with that half forever.
If he were as generous, fiercely protective and loyal, yep, that would be a real catch!
You rock cayc! Don't let his brokenness allow you to forget it either!

edited for misspelling

[This message edited by StillLivin at 1:52 AM, April 6th (Sunday)]


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

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NaiveAgain
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Default  Posted: 8:45 AM, April 6th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great thread!


Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.

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ChinaCat
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Default  Posted: 3:54 PM, April 6th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love the topic! I would date me too :)


"Every time I stay out late; every time I sleep in; every time I miss a workout; every time I don't give 100% - I make it that much easier for him to beat me!"
Me: BS & Beautiful!

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