Hi trumanshow! I am in Charlotte,NC too!
North Carolina has a very high success rate with AOA....that is why STBXH and OW always squirm when I mention it!! I love that I can file suit and more than likely win! I am keeping it in my back pocket during negotiations--- STBXH tried to blackmail me with my brother, but I threw this in his face and he backed down....Love it! Bring it on is all I have to say!!!
I do have proof also, pictures of him and me hugging on labor day, etc...neighbors and family members can testify...then OW (neighbor) came into the picture and BAM complete 180 from him! he of course denies that SHE had ANYTHING to do with it and was just a "catalyst" from his unhappy marriage! Really?? Then why did I NOT hear about this unhappiness and ILYBNILWY until she came into the picture!? Jerk!! BS:41 (me)
Married 15 years
Separated as of 01/16/2014,now divorcing...WH did not want to reconcile.
You can't rationalize irrational behavior.