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User Topic: Who replaced my wife with this person?
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Default  Posted: 2:44 AM, April 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Replace 40 with 38 and you've got my ex wife nailed. In fact most people have nailed my ex wife.

Anyone on here ever see the blameshifting and marriage re-write stop and get an apology? No? Didn't think so.

[This message edited by allatsea at 10:18 AM, May 1st (Thursday)]

Me 40
WW 38
Together 19 years
Married for 9
DS(1) 9
DS(2) 7
Dday 10th Feb 2013
She moved in with POS and took kids 23rd Mar 2013. WW now has new baby
Divorced April 2014

Posts: 715 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: UK
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Default  Posted: 7:54 AM, April 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When he was "in the heat" of the A I would look into his blue blue gorgeous eyes and think they looked like ice. Like dead, emotionless eyes. I couldn't even recognize him and it was scarrrrrry.

Isn't this bizarre? I got the same thing--when I sobbingly pleaded with her to stop hurting me and our family. Creepy.

Divorced April Fool's Day 2014

Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.

Posts: 1625 | Registered: Dec 2012
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Default  Posted: 12:55 PM, April 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is soooo reassuring reading. I can't believe the extent of the blameshifting, the re-writing of our history, and my ex's multitude of excuses. He is beyond recognition - I have often thought he was literally under hypnosis, he seems like such an altered version of himself.
The thing I cannot fathom is the extent of his lies with regard to me, he has even had the gall to try to convince our children that everything is my fault He speaks to me very irreverently and with a tone of pure anger, it's beyond my comprehension.

Sending good vibes to all who need it.

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