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User Topic: Video on custody dispute & DV
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 12:09 AM, April 2nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

http://vimeo.com/36043101

This is excellent. It's mainly about women who have been abused, what they can expect as they go through the legal system, what the custody dispute will be like, and so forth.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9824 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
homewrecked2011
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Default  Posted: 12:57 AM, April 2nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you! Sometimes I forget that I have been traumatized by this man, and I can't understand my own actions.


me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Divorce filed

Posts: 2210 | Registered: Jan 2012
badd
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Default  Posted: 4:36 PM, April 2nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you NG this should be posted in NB, too, or would that violate any rules? I think it is VITAL information for newbies and for oldies so partially I am posting to bump it up as well.

Posts: 130 | Registered: Apr 2009
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Default  Posted: 8:57 AM, April 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping this again.

Viewing this made me so angry. I had to stop half way through, when the attorney was speaking about tactics used when representing the "alleged" perp.

UGH!

The divorce process is so ugly. This video should be recommended for parties in any contentious divorce; it's an eye-opener.


Posts: 1273 | Registered: Aug 2010
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 9:25 AM, April 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh I know! When that atty started talking about the abuser taking out a RO on the victim because it will put the abuser on equal legal standing as the victim, I wanted to physically attack him & shut him up. But honestly "we" victims need to know about this. We need to hear that this kind of stuff is used as a tactic against us.

I have gone on to spend a lot of time researching & studying how abuse victims & their children fair during a divorce & custody dispute. It isn't pretty.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9824 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Topic Posts: 5

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