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User Topic: 21 months out....still uncomfortable.
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Default  Posted: 3:46 PM, March 31st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Another note.......

Its been over 2 weeks since I spontaneously cried (crying without a known trigger). I hope this is a sign of healing and NOT a sign that I am becoming numb to the pain within. KWIM?

ME: 42 BH, I don't PM female members
SHE: 38 EA
Married: 15 years
Together: 17 years
D/Day 9-10-12
NC: 10-25-12
NC: Broken early November 2012, OM not respond
2 girls; 7 and 10
Fear is payments on debts you have not

Posts: 3965 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Central Missouri
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Default  Posted: 8:51 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I need to man-up and take that step of faith that I can do what I NOW know I need to do.

Yes. Action!

I am anxious to DO WHAT WAS PRESENTED.

Action. Supported by others?

I get the real sense I need to DO more with the growth I am feeling. The conferences I attended really spoke of DOING.....I have been a "doer" most if my life......I know I can do it. Your support is helping me get up and go.

Action. Supported by others?

I think my own brokenness, and how for decades it remained hidden, is what I need to unlock.
Hmmmm. Back to thinking and reading?

I still have some regrets over what I wasted over the years. And those regrets are what I need to work on for myself to become healthier.
Is this THINKING about regret? Of DOING things differently in the here and now?


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