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User Topic: 2 months of sobriety
Kelany
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Default  Posted: 12:08 PM, March 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I know, I'm a baby in this journey, but I hit 2 months today. I'm getting my coin at my Saturday women's meeting.


BS - Me
SA/FWH Him
DDay 1 - Jul 11
DDay 2 - Jul 12
R Dec 12

Former 80s Icon wishful thinking


Posts: 2031 | Registered: Feb 2012
ajsmom
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Member # 17460
Default  Posted: 12:26 PM, March 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good for you!

Woo Hoo!!!


AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21071 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 12:31 PM, March 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations! I'm so happy for you


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
sunandmoon
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Default  Posted: 12:33 PM, March 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Baby in the journey or not - YOU DID THIS!!

Congrats Kelany!!

sunandmoon


Posts: 1635 | Registered: Mar 2006
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 12:42 PM, March 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome job!!!!


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


Posts: 198326 | Registered: May 2002
Wodnships
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Member # 42750
Default  Posted: 12:48 PM, March 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations Kalany.


me: BH 35
Her: WW 28

Married 4 years. Dating 8. Living together 7.

If a man took his time on earth
to prove be for he died
what on man's life could be worth
I wonder what would happen to the world

- Harry Chapin


Posts: 501 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: California
HFSSC
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Member # 33338
Default  Posted: 12:52 PM, March 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Keep coming. It works if you work it, and sucks if you don't.


Me, 47
Him, 40 (JMSSC)
married 17 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

Posts: 2787 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
dreamlife
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Default  Posted: 1:01 PM, March 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bravo!!!!!

One Day at a Time...took me to over 25 years sober!


~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

Posts: 25435 | Registered: Sep 2005
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 2:30 PM, March 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Excellent!!!!!

Congratulations on your milestone!


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


Posts: 38078 | Registered: Sep 2007
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 2:35 PM, March 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's still a milestone of achievement. Congratulations on your hard work.


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 52682 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
Gottagetthrough
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Default  Posted: 2:44 PM, March 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

fantastic!!!

my husband has over 3 years sobriety today... its been 1 day at a time.


Posts: 1401 | Registered: Jan 2010
Kodi
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Default  Posted: 2:44 PM, March 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


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Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 4:07 PM, March 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You should feel good about yourself! Well done!


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9827 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Kelany
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Default  Posted: 4:14 PM, March 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you guys for the support. I love my AA, truly. Without it, I'd have given in to my cravings. I chose a terrible way to cope after dday2. I own it.

I'm really feeling good about this accomplishment though. I'm doing it for me, hour by hour at first now day by day.


BS - Me
SA/FWH Him
DDay 1 - Jul 11
DDay 2 - Jul 12
R Dec 12

Former 80s Icon wishful thinking


Posts: 2031 | Registered: Feb 2012
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 5:15 PM, March 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

for the accomplishment.

For owning the accomplishment, BIG


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10383 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
5454real
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Default  Posted: 5:39 PM, March 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome!!!


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2995 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
Lucky2HaveMe
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Default  Posted: 5:50 PM, March 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Each day is a victory! Congrats


Indian wisdom says our lives are rivers. We are born somewhere small and quiet and we move toward a place we cannot see, but only imagine. From Tending Roses

Posts: 6568 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: WNY
JamieMc
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Default  Posted: 11:15 PM, March 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You should be really proud of not drinking alcohol for two months , Bravo!! My Dad & my Uncle were both alcoholics so I have some idea of how difficult it is to kick booze to the curb. Sending positive thoughts & prayers, wishing you all the best -Jamie. If you ever need a cyber friend just send me a PM.


BS early 50's Wh also early 50's. I am Jamie, Mom to 3 great teens/young adults. My WH and I have been together more than half of our lives and married 25+. We are in MC & going to give R our best shot, hoping and praying for a better 2013!

Posts: 112 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: USA
sadone29
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Default  Posted: 9:20 AM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!!


DDay Feb. 28, 2013
"I am pretty sure enforcing the boundary is the most important part of the boundary"- Jerry Seinfeld

Posts: 771 | Registered: Mar 2013
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 11:26 AM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats. Don't knock your "just 2 months" it's with each day that we put more distance between us and our burdens when we deal with them head on.

Be proud. Be strong.

Continue to brag on your progress too!!!

It may just inspire another member to realize that they too, need to start this journey.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

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