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User Topic: Cameron Diaz movie OW-vent
namaste32
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Default  Posted: 4:20 PM, March 21st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was reading this today after Cameron Diaz said infidelity is everywhere.Ethan Hawke said in an interview related to this movie:To act all indignant,that your world has been rocked because your lover wasnt faithful to you,is a little bit like acting rocked that your hair went grey.
WTF????? I cant believe this.Sorry ,but we all know that our fuckin hair will go grey,its life.But cheating? I didnt know that thats part of life ,too.Sorry ,just had to get it out there,.....

Posts: 184 | Registered: Jul 2011
unfound
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Default  Posted: 4:25 PM, March 21st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

hmmm ,last I checked, my hair had made no promises to me. plus, if I don't like my hair, I can change it . WS, not so much.

Loreal for WS? dump some chemicals on them, toss them in the shower and whaa-laaa! *leave on 5 extra minutes for stubborn WS's. I'd made MILLIONS!!!


ka-mai
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From time to time, I do consider that I might be mad. Like any self-respecting lunatic, however, I am always quick to dismiss any doubts about my sanity. DK

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SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 4:31 PM, March 21st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What else would you expect a remorseless WH to say? The BW he cheated on was the lovely and very talented actress, Uma Thurman. He is a DB and I really am not interested in his movies (I put him on the list with Brad Pitt, Angelina Jolie, Mel Gibson, etc., etc., ).


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9513 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
confused615
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Default  Posted: 4:32 PM, March 21st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


BS(me)41
FWH 45
4 kids..21,20,11,9
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
Status: Happily Reconciled.

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


Posts: 7276 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Indiana
Want To Wake Up
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Default  Posted: 4:52 PM, March 21st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Loreal for WS? dump some chemicals on them, toss them in the shower and whaa-laaa! *leave on 5 extra minutes for stubborn WS's.


Priceless! LMAO


Me 50+
WH 50+ (SlowUptake)
DDay '09
Latest TT... Nov '13 (not a typo!)


One man’s “fruitless conflict” is another man’s “meaningful discussion”


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Flatlined
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Default  Posted: 5:13 PM, March 21st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Infidelity has long been *romanticized* on the big screen, but Hollywood, for whatever reasons, seems bent on NORMALIZING infidelity now. Yes, it has been around forever, there is "nothing new under the sun." Yet the *shame* of it has been removed. It's not scandalous anymore. It's being heralded as a RIGHT even... "You deserve to be happy, no matter what." The truth of the DEVASTATION of it is being erased.

There are so many infidelity themed prime time TV shows on today as well. H and I watch almost NO TV now.

I saw the trailer for this movie and was like wth? So all the women become friends and have a great time making the cheating louse husband pay? The fallout of infidelity is a great big fun game? Only in Hollywood's fantasyland. Makes me want to


Me BW
Him FWH [Dr.NewMan]
Married 23 y/4 children In R
DDay #1 7/20/09 DDay #2 7/28/09 (2 As,both with *PSEUDO*friends)

Had him first. Have him last. Just wish I could have had him ONLY.


Posts: 509 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: South
AML04
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Default  Posted: 5:56 PM, March 21st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Of course he feels that way, he's the cheater


Me-BS Him-WH DS 5/12
T-13 M-9
DDay 5/26/13, TT through 8/13
2.5 yr EA w/co-worker, PA 12/12 to 4/13.
Hopeful for R

Posts: 842 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: MA
HardenMyHeart
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Default  Posted: 12:06 AM, March 22nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was reading this today after Cameron Diaz said infidelity is everywhere.Ethan Hawke said in an interview related to this movie:To act all indignant,that your world has been rocked because your lover wasnt faithful to you,is a little bit like acting rocked that your hair went grey.

Hollywood type celebrities sometimes seem to live on a different planet. If Diaz is referring to celebrity affairs, then I agree with her; affairs come with the territory. However, when a betrayal happens to those of us that believe our wedding vows hold deep meaning, then affairs can be truly devastating.

[This message edited by HardenMyHeart at 1:45 AM, March 22nd (Saturday)]


Me: BH, Her: FWW - Long Term EA/PA
d-day: June 25, 2007
Married 30 years, Reconciled

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jpumpkin
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Default  Posted: 7:28 AM, March 22nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

HardenMyHeart: I think it was Ethan Hawke who made the ridiculous comments about not getting upset when you've been cheated on. Cameron made a statement that everyone has been cheated on at some point in their life. Which I could buy. Unless someone has only dated one person and that one person is faithful (which we've learned here that there is a chance you just don't know) then there is a very good chance that most people have been betrayed at least once on some level.

As for Hawke, he's an idiot and I would be angry if I were his current wife with as much as he's been spouting off about monogamy and infidelity. The last interview I read of his stated he was currently monogamous but basically read like he knew he would do it again. He's laying the ground work to cheat AGAIN and be able to say "you can't get mad, I told you people aren't suppose to be faithful". Just like Uma shouldn't have expected faithfulness. He assumes everyone is as worthless as he is. I wish I could
remember his exact words, but the way he referred to his wife, he might as well have called her my 2nd ex wife.


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