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User Topic: Give the OW more credit
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Default  Posted: 3:36 PM, March 21st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh and I have to comment on unfound's response:

Jrazz thinks you have a drinking problem? Let's ditch work and get drunk at lunch!! See! This is the life you could have with ME!!! Fun fun fun, all the time!

I'm SURE there was plenty of this going on. I was the "bad guy", I never wanted to have fun, didn't smoke pot, etc. he wanted to feel young with no responsibilities and she played right into it because she doesn't take anything seriously. She's a 12 year old in a 29 year old body. But again, it was WH who said yes and let her manipulate him.

Me-BS Him-WH DS 5/12
Met 2000, Married 2004
DDay 5/26/13, TT through 8/13
2.5 yr EA w/co-worker, PA 12/12 to 4/13
Hopeful for R

Posts: 875 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: MA
Getting to Happy
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Default  Posted: 12:05 AM, March 22nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

...But again, it was WH who said yes and let her manipulate him.

And that is the part that makes me sick. I told him, he made a fool out of me and she made a fool out of him.

It really gets me that he was so easily swayed.

On further inspection, I found that Mr. Happy had been trolling for a few years...LOL...trolling for a troll!

So she was the weak and broken person that took him up on his lousy proposal. He had been grooming a few women, she was the only one willing to join him in the gutter.

No offence to the folks here in General who are waywards. Bless all of you who are seeking help and are willing to change.

This AP is still at it...

WS him
BS me DD's 26, 25' DS 23
dd1 1-1-10, dd2 Mothers Day 2011, dd3 3-12-12 Hawaii trip with ho-worker...

Never forget what is worth remembering or remember what is best forgotten.

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