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User Topic: Devastated!!!??? Question to Waywards mainly
Gemstone
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Default  Posted: 11:22 AM, March 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Question really for former waywards
Often in the BS stories, we read that the wayward partner was devastated, when the affair was discovered,for the pain caused to us, and some are" Its you I love, I want to be with you, You are the only 1 for me", almost immediately. (I know not all)
Can any of you explain how and why this turnaround in feelings happens so quickly.
My husband is not really able to give much of an explaination, he maintains he was going to end it anyway when I found out. I was wondering if that is what makes the differnce.
I am not asking this in an agressive way, I am curious how feelings etc can change so quickly on discovery or is there never a change that quick and it is just words, also, if they can change that quickly, is there not the chance that it could all change back. I hope those of you further down the line may have a clearer insight.
Thank you

Posts: 97 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: United Kindgdon
Gemstone
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Default  Posted: 12:47 PM, March 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think this would be better in Wayward forum, can someone tell me how to move it please

Posts: 97 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: United Kindgdon
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Default  Posted: 2:38 PM, March 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

BS's are not to start threads in the WS Forum, please read the forum description.

You may re-post your question on the BS Questions for WS's thread in the ICR forum.


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