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User Topic: Just ran into ex in laws. Mother F-ers!!!!
DragonBunker
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Default  Posted: 8:14 AM, March 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


I was, a few hours ago, at the hospital having minor surgery. I was waiting to be called through when I heard a couple of women muttering loudly about the "f**king bitch" and "who does she think she is, swanning in here like the world owes her a favour!"
I was thinking how rude that was, in a public waiting room, where everyone could hear. No matter what the woman in question had done, there is a time and a place. I turned to do the very British practice of giving a scathing look that reminds people of social protocol and -surprise!! It's my ex mother in law and ex sister in law judging my dreadful behaviour in leaving their abusive son and brother and going NC with the entire family.

The job I work in requires an outstanding poker face and so I was able to remain as blank as if they were strangers and of no interest, but what the actual f**k?! How dare I "swan" into my local hospital for surgery!? Like the world owes me a favour?? No, but I'm proud of who I am and the choices I've made to keep me and mine safe and I stick by them. The world owes me nothing, the only thing that was ever owing was to my children, and it was a normal and happy childhood. I have given them that- not the world. And how am I such a bitch for leaving your cheating, twisted, evil family member?!

They sat there discussing whether or not they should come over as I hadn't noticed them, and the ex sister in law actually got up and started walking towards me. The nurse then came out, perfect timing, and called me in. I explained to her that I didn't want to be near these people and she arranged for me to use the staff exit after my op.

But seriously, mother f**kers!!! That is a really spiteful and intimidating thing to do!! Just like that damn family, ugh I am so glad they're not involved with my kids!!


Never looking back with longing. Always looking forward with hope.

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callmecrazy
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Default  Posted: 8:22 AM, March 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Obviously they love drama and confrontation, glad you were able to get out of there!

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:24 AM, March 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How kind of them to clearly illustrate exactly why your decision to NC the whole family was necessary.

Sending you healing mojo, honey.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


Posts: 25774 | Registered: Aug 2011
suckstobeme
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Default  Posted: 8:57 AM, March 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a couple of classless pigs. Really. Good for you for being able to keep your cool and act like they were nothing but a bad smell in the room.

I hope the surgery went well and you are on the mend.


BW - me
ExWH - "that one"
D - 2011
You get what you put in, and people get what they deserve.
Hard as it may be, try to never give the OP any of your power or head space.

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Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 9:03 AM, March 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, hope the wheels on their gurneys fall off. What a great reminder of why you left that crappy bunch of people.

I am sorry that happened.

Feel better soon!


Donít get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well.†

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BtraydWife
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Default  Posted: 9:10 AM, March 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well no wonder your husband was an ass.


Me-BW
Him-WH
DD-March 2010
TT for 6 months
Unremorseful for 3.5 years

Delay is the deadliest form of denial. - C. Northcote Parkinson

Your standards aren't up for negotiation just because he/she can't meet them.


Posts: 1900 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: United States
NeverAgain2013
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Default  Posted: 9:24 AM, March 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The apple does not fall far from the tree, does it DragonBunker?


Be careful - that 'knight in shining armor' may very well be nothing more than an assclown wrapped in tin foil.
ME: 50+ years old and cute as a button :-)
Ex-WBF: Just a lying, cheating, gravy-sucking pig - and I left him in 2012.

Posts: 1819 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: USA
Wodnships
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Default  Posted: 9:40 AM, March 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It doesn't sound to me like they were simply being inconsiderate. It sounds to me as if they had every intention of you hearing what they were saying. And that's just wow.


me: BH 35
Her: WW 28

Married 4 years. Dating 8. Living together 7.

If a man took his time on earth
to prove be for he died
what on man's life could be worth
I wonder what would happen to the world

- Harry Chapin


Posts: 501 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: California
Gottagetthrough
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Default  Posted: 9:43 AM, March 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How kind of them to clearly illustrate exactly why your decision to NC the whole family was necessary.

Yep!


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DragonBunker
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Default  Posted: 3:09 PM, March 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

They certainly did prove why I'm NC with them all! I seriously expect to receive some kind of threatening email or letter because they actually laid eyes on me.


Never looking back with longing. Always looking forward with hope.

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