I know im movg slow but Im really tryg. this is painful
[This message edited by Imissmyhusb at 9:42 AM, April 2nd (Wednesday)]
Summon up every little bit of courage and energy you have and get to a lawyer TODAY.
Your husband clearly does NOT have your best interests at heart at ths point. As horrific as it is to have to digest that fact, the bottom line is that you can no longer count on him being loyal to you and the children, nor can you count on him having yours and your children's best interests at heart. He's made it very clear that he's looking out for Number #1 and that's it. I'm so sorry, it's an ugly fact but it's your reality that you have to deal with.
You need to get to a lawyer IMMEDIATELY. Forget your aching heart, forget your battered soul, forget your devastation.
For the moment.
Swallow it all and get to a lawyer. You need financial protection NOW, Imissmyhusb. Before this man cleans you out and leaves you hanging on the clothes line. Please get an appt. with a lawyer NOW.
Good luck to you.
Any suggestions on what to say to OWH?
[This message edited by Imissmyhusb at 10:25 PM, April 20th (Sunday)]
He was very forthcoming with what he knew and i will be in contact w him to share info
Thanks for the 2x4s. I still hav a ways to go
OBS seems to really want to save his M but he sees that she is not truly remorseful. She confessd to a PA w my H but WH has yet to even acknowldg this A to me.
My plan is to put a few items of clothg in a bag with a letter i wrote cursing him out and the evidence (emails and facbk chats). I will drive to his ofc and leave it in the drivers seat of his car. (Stole that from another poster). The letter says that i dont want him to come home. I do want him to at some point, but the goal is that he gets a shocking realizatn of whats at stake. What do u think?