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User Topic: A reason to pronounce words clearly
risingfromashes
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Default  Posted: 2:06 PM, March 3rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have recently started dating a really nice man. (His ex also a serial cheater). I had gone out the night before with friends in the city. He called the next day to ask how my night went. I told him that we ended up going to Tapas bar. "A what?" A Tapas bar. "What"? "Where"? You know, a Spanish restaurant that serves small plates of food.

20 minutes after I hang up I realize that he thought I was saying Topless. Duh, it did take me a while before it crossed my mind. I could not stop laughing!
He must have thought Okay here come the crazy that she has kept hidden so far!

Thank God he gave me the benefit of the doubt and I took the time to explain.

Sure, a bunch of women choosing to hang at the topless bar on a Saturday night!


There is life on the other side of hell.

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 2:17 PM, March 3rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Enunciation matters!


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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need_hope
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Default  Posted: 2:47 PM, March 3rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me - happily single
Him - no longer matters
Married 28 yrs
Filed for D 1/10
DIVORCED 12/12

Tact is for people who aren't witty enough to be sarcastic.


Posts: 1729 | Registered: May 2009 | From: East Coast
lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 4:00 PM, March 3rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sure, a bunch of women choosing to hang at the topless bar on a Saturday night

You wild thing


I'm sorry if you don't like my Honesty, but to be fair I don't like your lies.

Sometimes it's better to push someone away...not because you stopped loving them but because you can't take the pain anymore.


Posts: 13644 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston
TrustedHer
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Default  Posted: 5:45 PM, March 3rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I had much the same reaction the first time someone tried to explain Tapas to me.


Take care of yourself. There's a great future out there. It won't come to you; you have to go to it.

Posts: 5115 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartOf, TX
better4me
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Default  Posted: 6:06 PM, March 3rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Divorced

Posts: 3004 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
million pieces
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Default  Posted: 6:43 PM, March 3rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The same thing happened when I said a similar thing to my now fiance.

Guys will hear what they want to hear


Me - 42
2 kids, 9 and 11
D-Day 2/5/10, separated 3 wks later
Divorced 11/15/11!!!!

Posts: 1230 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: MD
nutmegkitty
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Default  Posted: 7:40 PM, March 3rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is so funny!


me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


Posts: 2565 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 7:42 PM, March 3rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Kinda like a tiki bar.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7413 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
time2grow
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Default  Posted: 8:03 PM, March 3rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Enunciation matters!

If you only knew

I've lost some of my hearing and find myself reading lips more. Lets just say some conversations can be entertaining


Posts: 1719 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Missouri
Griefstricken25
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Default  Posted: 9:35 PM, March 3rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The one time when texting would have been the better option.


Me!
3 amazing kidlets
To WXH "Now you're just somebody that I used to know." http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d9NF2edxy-M
D-day and separation - June, 2009
Divorced - December, 2011

Posts: 2501 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: A better place
risingfromashes
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Default  Posted: 7:04 AM, March 4th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Kinda like a tiki bar.

Think I will go there on my next girl's night out!

[This message edited by risingfromashes at 4:15 PM, March 4th (Tuesday)]


There is life on the other side of hell.

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Charity411
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Default  Posted: 9:04 AM, March 4th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When Tapas restaurants first started becoming popular I worked for the Chamber of Commerce in a mid sized, trendy city. We often got calls asking for restaurant recommendations. Almost every time we recommended this new Tapas bar the caller would get honked off that as a Chamber we were recommending smut.

Posts: 268 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Illinois
BAB61
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Default  Posted: 10:12 AM, March 4th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I drive by a Tapas just about every other day....now my kids will think I'm nuts when I start chuckling!


Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.

Posts: 1271 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: DE
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