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User Topic: Really? This is my fault too?
IrishLass518
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Default  Posted: 11:36 AM, March 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Apparently, my xWH posted on FB this morning that he was mad at his family and children for not acknowledging OWifetress' birthday. I only know about it because my nephew got pissed and called them both out. So anyway he has posted that it is because they all associate with his "nasty" ex that she is ignored. Yup, I control the world. who knew?


Me: 45 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 22, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1674 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
tesla
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Default  Posted: 11:42 AM, March 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Another X-Wife super power!!

We are one powerful group of bitches, aren't we?!


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4539 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
kg201
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Default  Posted: 11:46 AM, March 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You are also responsible for the crisis in the Ukraine, global warming, and the extinction of unicorns.


Me: BH, 39
Her: WW, 40
Together 18 years, married 15+
LTA 3.5 years, ongoing
Dday: 7/28/13
Divorcing, 3 children
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"There can be no friendship without confidence, and no confidence without integrity." -S

Posts: 581 | Registered: Aug 2013
IrishLass518
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Default  Posted: 11:49 AM, March 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes. Yes I am. Now that I am fully aware of my super powers, I am going to get lists from everyone I know and make some $&it happen. Don't worry, I will get lists from all of you in due time.


Me: 45 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 22, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1674 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
tesla
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Default  Posted: 11:49 AM, March 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

x-wives are master unicorn killers!! Just ask my ex-shat, I destroy all that is good and right in *his* world.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4539 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 11:51 AM, March 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am at fault for everything, it's apparently my special power.

Over the passed 2 years that this shitstorm has been going on my kids have realized that everything got blamed on me-- and now it is our inside joke.

My 10 year old especially thinks it is hilarious, and it's his go-to reason for all things wrong in life now...

Didn't pass a test? Mom's fault!

Lost your hat? Mom's fault!

Teacher was mean today? Mom's fault!

Dad can't pick you up on his day? Mom's fault!

I am woman, hear me roaring?


divorced the Dooosh
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even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3517 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
inconnu
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Default  Posted: 11:56 AM, March 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just imagine if you used your power for good, not evil.


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12122 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: TX
Vulcanized
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Default  Posted: 12:05 PM, March 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

XH sounds like a nitwit.


Me: MH 40s; Him: MH 40s (I had RA)
OW: 30s, moron; one of many
M: 8 yrs
3/13: D'd
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Everything is as it should be.

Posts: 726 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Vulcania
ButterflyGirl
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Default  Posted: 12:06 PM, March 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She's whining cause she didn't get enough birthday wishes? Seriously, what is she 12?

And what a knight in shining armor to cause a scene on Facebook over it. Maybe he shoulda spent that time buying her a My Little Pony instead.


xBW~ 35
Two of the most darling sons ~ 10 and 6

Posts: 1990 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Florida, USA
IrishLass518
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Default  Posted: 12:07 PM, March 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The one thing that I find so hysterical is that at the end of the post, they make it about me. What? It's been 3 f'ing YEARS!! How is this about me? And why do they give me that power?

Truthfully, the post was most likely written by OWifetress. Doesn't anyone else get that she wants my attention and this whole A, then M to xWH was more about me for her than about her loving xWH? Duh, she just posted it on FB


Me: 45 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 22, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1674 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
haysuth01
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Default  Posted: 12:19 PM, March 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


XBS
Divorced 5/07.
DS-7! What?!
Happily remarried, B/G twins (5).

Posts: 219 | Registered: Jul 2010
BtraydWife
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Default  Posted: 1:14 PM, March 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's what my first thought was. She wrote it.

It's great so see how wonderful their life is. Glad it's all working out for them.


Me-BW
Him-WH
DD-March 2010
TT for 6 months

Delay is the deadliest form of denial. - C. Northcote Parkinson


Posts: 680 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: United States
osxgirl
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Default  Posted: 3:54 PM, March 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Is this horrible of me:

What I would probably not do, but would really, really, really, REALLY want to do in your situation, is start one of those viral FB posts. Something with a birthday cake with TONS of candles on it, and text that says something like:


HAPPY BD, HOME WRECKING HO!!!

My XH's ho... I mean OW... didn't get enough birthday wishes and greetings and is pouting. Please like this greeting and tag OW so she can get warm fuzzes that thousands of strangers on FB really, really like her.
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If I ever saw a post like this, it would probably be the first time I re-posted a "like this and pass it on" FB post.


Posts: 2310 | Registered: Nov 2005 | From: Maryland
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 4:10 PM, March 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

^^^^^^I'm going to remember this one for NW's next birthday!!!!

Irishlass do we have the same XH? he sent the kids texts asking them to call her and say happy birthday.

I control hurricanes, XH and NW informed his attorney and the court system of the fact, so it must be true!

It's been 10 years (for me) and she still wants to matter to me.... it don't think it will ever end.

Hugs,
K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 4827 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 7:26 PM, March 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Is he FB friends with your kids? If he is, I'm sure that your kids really enjoyed seeing him trash-talk their mom on a *public* forum.
Way to earn respect, dad.


eta: And a total *fist-bump* to the nephew who called his ass out on his whining.....

[This message edited by gonnabe2016 at 7:27 PM, March 1st (Saturday)]


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 7680 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
SBB
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Default  Posted: 7:38 PM, March 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just imagine if you used your power for good, not evil.

I dare say she has!

and the extinction of unicorns


Oh my ribs!!!

Unicorn Slayers Unite!!!!

I cannot believe anyone would post that shit on FB. How embarrassing. The sad clown posts shit that still makes me embarrassed to have ever known him AND I DONT EVEN KNOW WHAT HE POSTS (I won't let anyone tell me).


Buzz- The word you are searching for is 'Space-Ranger.'
Woody- The word I'm searching for, I can't say, because there are Pre-school toys here.

Posts: 5398 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
renee21
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Default  Posted: 9:50 PM, March 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Its amazing how we get blamed for everything that goes wrong in their lives. I am currently learning how delusional an unremorseful soon to be ex can be.

They really live in an alternate universe.


BW(me) 36
WH-36 SA
Three kids 18, 16 and 9
Married 18 years.
Multiple D-Days, multiple OW and an OC
12/19/03,5/13/2004,12/5/2009, 2/20/2014
I am no longer a guest on the Jerry Springer Show.

Posts: 1325 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Florida
IrishLass518
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Default  Posted: 10:03 PM, March 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes, our children all saw this except for youngest IrishLad. They are pissed and oldest IrishLad pointed out that he had no clue when her birthday was. I realized that none of them were invited to celebrate with them nor did xWH call and ask them to call her and yet it is my fault? Crazy doesn't begin to cover this crap.


Me: 45 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 22, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1674 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
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