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User Topic: My daughter got bit at daycare......while trying to go to sleep!
Mama_of_3_Kids
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Default  Posted: 7:59 PM, February 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Something similar happened to DS10, when he was about her age...only it left a bad mark and eventually scared (I can still see the scar, now). It's hard as a Mama to not want to go thump the other kid upside the gourd I'm sure she will be okay, tomorrow


Me: FBW/30 Him: FWH/33 The kidlets: DS13, DS10, and DD8 The hounds: Four Shih Tzu's
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Clothed in strength and dignity, with nothing to fear, she smiles when she thinks about the future.~Proverbs 31:25

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sparkysable
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Default  Posted: 8:09 AM, February 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sometimes these things are hard to prevent. If he got up, ran for her, and bit her all in a matter of seconds before anyone could get to him, I could see where it could happen. When my daughter was at daycare, I believe she was 2 or 3 at the time, there was a boy who was a bigger kid who liked to hug my DD a little too roughly and tightly. She was always telling me "Owen hurt me", and the daycare teachers had already told me that they didn't like how rough he was with her, so the worked hard to keep them separated. I was glad that they at least had the foresight to see that he was a potential problem.

I got to see it for myself when I was picking my DD up, and Owen's mom was picking him up. Owen runs up to my daughter and gives her this big tackle bear hug, his mother was like "Owen, let go". He lets go, and we think everything is fine. Suddenly, Owen lunges for DD, grabs her hair, and rips her down to the floor and jumps on top of her! It was so bizarre, and neither one of us mothers saw it coming it happened so fast!


D-day OW#1 2/2004; R for 6 years; D-day OW#2 5/2010

Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.


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She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 8:23 AM, February 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG.....what did the other mother do??? I would have freaked!!!!


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tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 8:40 AM, February 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awww Owen was in love with your daughter. Poor little guy just couldn't verbalize it.

My son was speech delayed and would get frustrated, he would tend to push or force the other kid to get them to see what he couldn't put in words. We had quite a few write ups over Owen like behavior.


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Lalagirl
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Default  Posted: 9:53 AM, February 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh sweetie, I SO can relate!!

My granddaughter (she is a bit older than Piper, born 2/3/12) has been bitten three times in the past six weeks by the same girl...all three times were unprovoked. The daycare also said they could not disclose the name of the child and my DD had to sign incident reports. But Rylan is very verbal, and told my DD who bit her.

Although "normal" - it still sucks...and the daycare deals with it the same way Piper's does. When Rylan told the little girl, "You hurt me, don't bite me..." and the daycare person told the girl to say she was sorry, she said, "NO!"

After my DD signed the third incident report, she asked that they separate the girls as this kid has a penchant for my granddaughter's flesh. Recently, when Rylan was having a typical 2-year-old tantrum and my DD was ignoring it, she bit herself to get attention. UGH!!

I know your frustration and am so sorry Piper was bitten. Normal or not, it sucks.

Hugs!


Me - 49; FWH - 51
Married 30 years 9/2/13
2 grown daughters-30 & 27
5yo GS & 20 mo. GD & GB #4 due 8/15(DD30) and 2.5 yo GD(DD27). D-day #1 - 1/06; D-day #2 - 3/07
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She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 9:57 AM, February 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It does suck...this is the end of her 1st full month of daycare...and the poor thing has had 2 stomach bugs and a bad cold....and a horrible rash most likely caused by yeast. Luckily everything has cleared up....and she isn't throwing up anymore...but now the whole biting thing. I guess this 1st year of daycare is just going to be rough....adjusting to other children....and their germs!


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


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Lalagirl
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Default  Posted: 10:09 AM, February 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh yes, the germs.

Rylan started daycare at 10 months (December 2012)...the first year was rough - colds, strep thorat, ear infections...yeast rashes...roseola...you name it, she got it. She did manage to escape the lice breakout. Her frequency of getting sick has gotten much better; this winter, she has had a couple colds and one stomach flu. Not bad considering that she was at the doctors every other week last winter/spring.

I swear if I were able, I'd quit my job and take care of her myself. But on the flip side, my other DD is a stay-at-home mom to 4 yo GS and 14 mo old GD (and baby on the way in August)...she put GS 4 in preschool this year to help him adjust for Kindergarten and NOW he's getting sick all the time. So either way, it comes down the pike sooner or later.

Let's just invent a bubble for the kids.


Me - 49; FWH - 51
Married 30 years 9/2/13
2 grown daughters-30 & 27
5yo GS & 20 mo. GD & GB #4 due 8/15(DD30) and 2.5 yo GD(DD27). D-day #1 - 1/06; D-day #2 - 3/07
Reconciled! Construction Complete.

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Lucky2HaveMe
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Default  Posted: 10:18 AM, February 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Germs are actually a good part of day care... otherwise once they start school and are exposed to everything, they miss important school days.

Just sharing a silver lining amongst the muck.


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JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 10:19 AM, February 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My kid was a scratcher when she was in the toddler room. It got pretty bad. She scratched one little boy in the face - I saw him when I walked in to pick her up, and thought, "Please dear God let her NOT be the one who did that." But yeah, she was.

I talked to her teacher about it - she said Baby Green never instigated the fight, she just was the one who ended it. She was very peaceful unless someone messed with her first. That made me feel SLIGHTLY better, but we still had to talk with her daily about using her words instead of scratching friends. Eventually she grew out of it. I was mortified at the time.


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 4-year-old daughter.

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sparkysable
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Default  Posted: 10:56 AM, February 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG.....what did the other mother do??? I would have freaked!!!!
She was horrified and apologetic after she got her child off of mine. She screamed OWEN STOP and tore him off of her. I picked up DD and consoled her, and I went back into the daycare and told them I now knew what they were talking about with Owen, and to keep Owen away from my DD.

P.S. DD did NOT get invited to Owen's birthday party that summer. I did not mind one bit!


D-day OW#1 2/2004; R for 6 years; D-day OW#2 5/2010

Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.


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