I suspect this is a phase, especially since perhaps with your WH acting right you don't want to be angry at him despite his moral lapse here being far far worse.
Take a kickboxing class and imagine you're punching the women if you must; I am sure you know that actually hurting them couldn't change the situation you're in anyway.
[This message edited by norabird at 11:04 AM, February 14th (Friday)]
I have no words of advice at all for you, only that I am sorry.
His AP: 24, former family friend and babysitter
Married 11 1/2 yrs
D-Day: 2/1/2014 3 month PA, 24 months sexting