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User Topic: My thesis chair died today
cayc
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Sad  Posted: 3:17 PM, February 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just found out through the grapevine that my PhD thesis chair died today. He was a rock for me not just with getting that stupid thesis done, but personally too. Held my hand a lot through my first run in with learning I was married to a dirtbag. Really, my whole grad school experience was characterized by my relationship with him.

I feel awful too because I hadn't responded to his last email and ... damn.


BS 45, WH 38
M 8 years, together 10
Real DDay 10/07/11
Too many OW to count.
D final on 6/21/12
The difference between involvement and commitment is like ham and eggs. The chicken is involved, the pig is committed.
- Martina Navratilova

Posts: 2793 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Mexico
purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 3:19 PM, February 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry cayc. Hugs to you.


Me: BS 44
Her: fWS 47 (same sex partner)
Together: 17 now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 1861 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 6:06 PM, February 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((cayc))))


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

There are shortcuts to happiness, and dancing is one of them-Vicky Baum


Posts: 49764 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 6:10 PM, February 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((cayc)))) I'm sorry, honey.


You can call me NIK

There's always failure. And there's always disappointment. And there's always loss.
But the secret is learning from the loss, and realizing that none of those holes are vacuums.
- Michael J. Fox


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jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 6:32 PM, February 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Cayc))) I'm so sorry


Me: BSO - 45
Him: FWSO - 68
DS - 12
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 6:44 PM, February 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Cayc)). I'm so sorry.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7034 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 6:44 PM, February 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((cayc)))

I am so sorry for your loss.


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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 8:48 PM, February 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry to hear that. The connections we make in our schooling can be intense and they are kind of like a second family.

(((cayc)))


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
Celebrating 60 years on Earth

Posts: 16634 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 10:15 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((((Cayc))))))


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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Holly-Isis
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Default  Posted: 4:15 PM, February 15th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((Cayc))))))
He left a legacy in people like you. Not many of us can say we've done that.


"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*

❣Your soulmate is the person who helps grow your soul into a better being rather than tearing it down❣


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