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User Topic: dear universe...
whiteflower99
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Default  Posted: 6:55 AM, February 4th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

you are going to have to get along without me today. Today, I am broken. Today, simply getting up and getting out of bed is proving a lot harder than I had anticipated, so I don't really want to do it. I would appreciate it, if you cangive me today.I just want one day where my children don't fight, where they get their homework done without constant nagging for me.
I would also really appreciate it if I could get just one day where I didn't have to deal with any of this infidelity and divorce crap.I just need a 24 hour reprieve and I promise you tomorrow I'll get back up and start fighting again. But today you're going to have to manage without me.


What are you pretending not to know?

me FBS
him idiotic sex addicted, hormone addled, porn watching, post pubescent male with a walking hard on for anything without a penis
4 kids 15 13 12 8
Earned my *F* the hard way; no longer defining mysel


Posts: 1754 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Greensboro, NC
MrsDoubtfire
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Default  Posted: 7:11 AM, February 4th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Dear whiteflower-

I hear you and will aim to do as your heart desires today... although I am a little busy right now with some tribe of people who call themselves 'Beliebers'?

Rest assured I shall give you a duvet day today and will try to locate my spidey senses elsewhere until you feel able to look at those big girl bitch boots once more. Hopefully, as you have already said- that day will come tomorrow

Yours forever turning,

The Universe


BS(Me) FWH(Him) DDay 05.09
A went underground. True R 02.10
I won't let another woman reap the benefit of enjoying the man my H has now becomeć

Posts: 1584 | Registered: Jul 2009
shatteredapart
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Default  Posted: 8:41 AM, February 4th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

{{Whiteflower99}} We all have those days (sometimes weeks or even months). It's OK. We're here to help lift you back up. I hope things get better today and that the universe is kind and gives you a break. My kids always seem to act up when I'm on edge...I think we send out some kind of signal. Maybe you can get them to have cuddle time with you instead of arguing with each other. Hugs and quiet time help me.

[This message edited by shatteredapart at 8:42 AM, February 4th (Tuesday)]


Me-BS
Him-WS
EA(PA?) 10 months with COW
3 ddays-Sept '13, Oct '13, Dec '13
Attempting Reconciliation...time and actions will tell

Posts: 122 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: USA
heforgotme
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Default  Posted: 9:15 AM, February 4th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((whiteflower99)))


D-Day 11/15/12
5 month PA
Married 20 years, 3 kids
All good is hard. All evil is easy. Dying, losing, cheating, and mediocrity is easy. Stay away from easy.
- Scott Alexander
It was the day I thought I'd never get through - Daughtry

Posts: 1083 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: FL
nekorb
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Default  Posted: 4:07 PM, February 4th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Hugs)))

I hope you got some peace today.


Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 aka CAT- colossal asshat; Married 22 years
D-day: July 17, 2013, with TT to follow
D filed July 16, 2014, 363 days later than I should have
Psalms 27:14
Wait for The Lord; be strong and take heart. Wait for the Lord.

Posts: 1838 | Registered: Aug 2013
918Mama
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Default  Posted: 4:17 PM, February 4th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Not sure how old your kids are but I pulled this one with my six year old last night...

I'm done with trying to get you to do your homework. You have a choice. You can either go to your room and finish it on your own, or you can explain to your teacher tomorrow why you didn't do it. I don't care.

I mean honestly...it's one night of homework in one grade of school. Give yourself a break.

Kids...it's cereal for dinner and whatever else you can find. But mama needs a break today so just don't kill each other in the process.

Take care of YOU. Otherwise, you won't be able to get back to taking care of them. You're allowed to take a break. Hugs!!!


Surrender to what is. Let go of what was. Have faith in what will be. -- Sonia Ricotti

Posts: 597 | Registered: Dec 2012
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 4:18 PM, February 4th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((whiteflower))))


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


Posts: 25845 | Registered: Aug 2011
StillLivin
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Default  Posted: 5:13 PM, February 4th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

whiteflower99, you have always given me such wonderful support.
Today is a good day for me, so I'm sending my strength to you via the internet.
Hugs and strength. Lean on me and the others here today.
Wish I could do more than just sending virtual hugs and strength.


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2342 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
whiteflower99
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Default  Posted: 5:33 PM, February 4th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


But these are sad/happy tears.
I love this board, thank you for your support. It helps make the exquisitely painful more bearable.
Thanks everyone.
Onward and upward.
Sigh


What are you pretending not to know?

me FBS
him idiotic sex addicted, hormone addled, porn watching, post pubescent male with a walking hard on for anything without a penis
4 kids 15 13 12 8
Earned my *F* the hard way; no longer defining mysel


Posts: 1754 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Greensboro, NC
steadfast1973
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Default  Posted: 6:53 PM, February 4th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh thank god i spent the summer teaching the girls to cook simple meals... My 5th grader has homework club after school (it's a requirement for extra curriculars). I need a lot of those. :( in addiction, just after dday2 I started taking a BP med that puts me to sleep... Just got upped to 2 a day... Took a five hour nap today...


Me- 40- BS Him- 36- WH D-day#1 5/25/09 3 mo. EA d-day#2 11/06/13 Prostitute 11/5/13 in R
"I've seen your flag on the marble arch, our love is not a victory march, it's a cold and broken hallelujah."- Leonard Cohen

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