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User Topic: Wife left me for her new boss - Part 2
allatsea
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Member # 38923
Default  Posted: 9:09 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I know I bounce from strength to weakness but even I can see that this is a major milestone.

I can also see that Gru and the harlet deserve each other. I'm taking bets on how soon they get married. It wouldn't surprise me if she is already engaged and I predict marriage before grulet appears

I never expected to be a divorcee


Me 40
WW 38
Together 19 years
Married for 9
DS(1) 9
DS(2) 7
Dday 10th Feb 2013
She moved in with POS and took kids 23rd Mar 2013. WW now has new baby
Divorced April 2014

Posts: 717 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: UK
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 9:16 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations, aas. There are often conflicting emotions when the decree arrives, so allow yourself to feel and process whatever may come.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


Posts: 25706 | Registered: Aug 2011
Jduff
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Member # 41988
Default  Posted: 10:13 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

AAS, it will get better from here on out. Take it day by day and process as much as you're able at a time.

I'm almost there myself, so I envy you.

Anyway, great job staying so vigilant through the whole process. You did excellent!


Divorced - 5/23/14
Already in my New Beginning - :)

Posts: 553 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: texas
Guinness23
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Default  Posted: 12:19 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I never expected to be a divorcee

Welcome to the club. I never did, either. I am Catholic and the first in my family EVER to be one. It sucks....but it IS liberating.


Me 47
ExH 43
Divorced 2010

47 is the new year of treating myself better than I have in 6 years.

What ever doesn't kill me makes me stronger so long as I remember that

My favorite drink is no longer Guinness but water. Call me Dasani23


Posts: 592 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: Indiana
CheaterMagnet
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Default  Posted: 4:08 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((HUGS))) Aas!

Sending you peace and strength.


If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5

Posts: 1037 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Kailua-Kona, HI
allatsea
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Member # 38923
Default  Posted: 5:18 AM, April 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thread closed

I'm off to New Beginnings! Thank you to all of you. Here is better than IC or MC

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=527509


Mod, please close this thread

[This message edited by allatsea at 5:20 AM, April 4th (Friday)]


Me 40
WW 38
Together 19 years
Married for 9
DS(1) 9
DS(2) 7
Dday 10th Feb 2013
She moved in with POS and took kids 23rd Mar 2013. WW now has new baby
Divorced April 2014

Posts: 717 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: UK
happyman64
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Member # 33212
Default  Posted: 12:18 PM, April 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good Luck AAS.

Your ex is nuts. Gru is a loser.

And though you probably will have the last laugh I wish you nothing but the best for you and your boys.

When they get older there is no doubt in my mind that they will be giving her plenty of hell for you.....

HM


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