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User Topic: What were the lamest affair reasons your WS have you?
sad34
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Default  Posted: 8:18 PM, February 2nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh poor boy, he wouldn't take no for an answer????? What was she gonna do pout??? Oh that would
Have pissed me off!!!

The "corn story" funny but in the same breath so damn sad. What eff is wrong with these people. This day and age is getting more and more "if it feels good do it". How sad for the next generation.


Bs: me 32 WH: 36
Dday: July 2012
LTA: 4years (ea, pa)
Dd-4. Ds-2
My life is shattered unsure about R

Posts: 138 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: canada
Lowlow
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Default  Posted: 1:08 AM, February 3rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My WS was "trying to prevent Ow from marrying the wrong guy".

And so your own marriage and wife didn't count??


Me (BS) 42 Him (FWS) 43
AP#2 (LTA EA/PA) DD #1 16 Feb 2013
AP#1 (EA with my BF) DD #2 16 Nov 2013
Married 11 years, T 19 years
Reconciling

Posts: 198 | Registered: Mar 2013
Ostrich80
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Default  Posted: 5:13 AM, February 3rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It was just something different...


BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

Posts: 4738 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
steadfast1973
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Default  Posted: 5:50 AM, February 3rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Something different" yup. That's a common one among the porn brains.

But with the EAP, he "owed her a second chance."

[This message edited by steadfast1973 at 5:52 AM, February 3rd (Monday)]


Me- 40- BS Him- 36- WH D-day#1 5/25/09 3 mo. EA d-day#2 11/06/13 Prostitute 11/5/13 in R
"I've seen your flag on the marble arch, our love is not a victory march, it's a cold and broken hallelujah."- Leonard Cohen

Posts: 2229 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Midwest
honesttoafault
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Default  Posted: 7:18 AM, February 3rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WH told me :
You are not tight enough "down there"
I've never been sexually satisfied with you

And the main reason?

We didn't have sex often enough (at least once a week when we had an infant with reflux)

So idiot if # 1 and 2 are true, wtf are you telling me we didn't have enough sex?

Lately cake eater tells me that one woman will never be enough for him. It's all about sex.

I'm shutting the bakery


Posts: 1938 | Registered: Jan 2010
Ostrich80
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Default  Posted: 1:35 AM, February 4th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Something different" yup. That's a common one among the porn brains.

Really??? Wasn't aware of that but its correct in this case.


BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

Posts: 4738 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
Dreamland
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Default  Posted: 2:20 AM, February 4th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh yes so many but I asked him why he crossed the line into PA. He said well we were holding hands in the bus on our ride home.. I asked him" wasn't that your first clue to stop"

We then later we went out and I kissed her.. At that point I knew I had gone to the point of no return. So since I had messed up I just continued.
I asked so then you decided that since you kissed her you might as well fuck her.
He said.. Well Yes.. What else was I supposed to do...
I said " walk away??"
He then said... Well that would have been weird she would have felt bad!!!"
Really really wtf are theses as swipes thinking!!
I wish I would have kicked his ass out


Me-BS 50 Him-WH 47, DD17
Together since 1993, Married 19 yrs
DDay 3/12,4/12,7/12 EA-PA OW - 25 single husband chasing bastard whore

Posts: 515 | Registered: Aug 2013
HurtsButImOK
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Default  Posted: 2:39 AM, February 4th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My x's reason every time was 'I didn't mean for it to happen'. I can only conclude therefore that he was the poor unfortunate victim of aggressive attack vaginas.

Seems to be quite a plague of them .


Me: Awesome - 35

"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou

"When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be". –


Posts: 722 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Australia
MrsDoubtfire
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Default  Posted: 5:35 AM, February 4th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

MrDoubtfire: "(in a kind of whiny way)
Because OW was always happy to see me.....even if I had ignored her for weeks!"

Me: "Yeah? Well the dog's always happy to see you... even when HE hasn't seen you for weeks too! And HE always gets his tongue out for you too but I have never seen you shove your dick into HIS mouth as a reward!"

Although, I guess... looking back....given the fact I know the dog eats fox crap and licks his balls a lot I would still have preferred to Frenchie him then instead of FWH. Less chance of catching anything KWIM?

[This message edited by MrsDoubtfire at 5:36 AM, February 4th (Tuesday)]


BS(Me) FWH(Him) DDay 05.09
A went underground. True R 02.10
I won't let another woman reap the benefit of enjoying the man my H has now become†

Posts: 1563 | Registered: Jul 2009
homewrecked2011
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Default  Posted: 5:55 AM, February 4th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"You haven't had sex with me in 8 years."

Ok, he had issues with that body part for 8 years, but he neglects to remember that fact!!!

Wait a minute,, I just remembered something,,, when parents began telling him, it looks like you and OW are having an affair, WH told them, "I can't be having an affair, my body part hasn't worked in 8 years!"

I have recently realized XWH may have an IQ problem, and I mean this seriously...


[This message edited by homewrecked2011 at 7:34 AM, February 6th (Thursday)]


me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Divorce filed

Posts: 1973 | Registered: Jan 2012
crestfallen
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Default  Posted: 7:47 AM, February 4th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

.........drumroll....get ready for this....
Because I was soooo perfect. Because I was the perfect wife and he was into doing something wrong. ( big Catholic stuff about the devil included) And because she had been flirting with him for years!

I'm so worth devastating because I'm so perfect??? WTF???


BS-me-57
WH-57
Married 32 years
OW-Mr. Ed ish! Seriously!
DDAY- 2/21/09
TT until 1/10/10
Working on R and doing well!!

Posts: 179 | Registered: Mar 2010
kate0421
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Default  Posted: 8:50 AM, February 4th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

" we were growing up to be different people" - wow really.. you thought meeting at 15 and 17 we wouldn't change? Idiot
"I never thought I was good enough"- Ok so instead of appreciating me and loving me you decide to go bang some nasty bar hoes ... twice. Ya that makes perfect sense
"I just always thought you would find somebody who could give you more and leave me"- Ok this one pisses me off... so when WS lost his job and we were literally scrambling for change a few years back I didn't ducking leave and was just as happy, Wtf does he really just think ALL woman are gold diggers? He should know me better considering I've been with him for 9 fucking years...
"I was really fucked up" and "These things never would of happened if I was sober"- oh Ok so it's just the alcohol? I should just blame the alcohol then right? A*shole

Oh and my favorite... "I wasn't thinking" ( which sometimes still slips out of his mouth ) ... Are you fucking kidding me? You were THINKING alright when you bought those drinks, you were THINKING when you knew it was wrong, you were THINKING when you drove back to the cum buckets apartment, you were THINKING when you put that condom on, you were THINKING when you got home and took a shower. This one drives me insane..m The only thing he wasn't THINKING about was me...


ME: BS
HIM: WS
Together over 9yrs
2 children
DDAY 9/23/2013- 2 ONS (2009-2010)
TT. 5/14/2014- slept with OW1 twice

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