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User Topic: Feeling Lost
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Default  Posted: 7:03 PM, February 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm having a really bad night, I'm so angry, hurt, sad , devastated and so overwhelmed right now. My husband has been so mean and I'm not going to take it anymore. He is the one who did this, and he's acting angry towards me??? I'm going to tell my parents , I've been trying to avoid telling them because of my Moms health, but I really need them. I'm also going to talk to an attorney to see what my options are. This makes me sick, I gave 38 years of my life to this man, and I have no idea who he is now! I'm just in a bad way tonight, I hope I can get some sleep tonight. Thanks for listening to my rant.

Posts: 12 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: New Jersey
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Default  Posted: 7:40 PM, February 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hear you.. My husband was the same... Best I can see is he's angry at himself but directing it at me.

On any given day you have the power to say "my story is not going to end like this"
Me 41 BS
Him 41 WH
6 kids...7 weeks, 5,7,9,11&13
D day jan 29th 2014

Posts: 536 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Land down under
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Default  Posted: 9:50 PM, February 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think the anger directed toward the BS is one of the most painful things. As you said, HE did this, and now he's behaving like this?

Unfortunately it seems to be extremely common.

I hope he snaps out of it soon.

See the attorney and let him know, if you think it may help bring him around and out of his delusions.

Good for you for standing your ground!!! And I'm so so sorry!

Me BS 49, ExWS: narcissist! Jekyll Hyde. Left in secret early July, moved states. Now homeless but getting it together. Necessary but difficult(!) transition! Sad sad sad but hopeful.

Posts: 554 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: theagonyofit
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Default  Posted: 11:45 PM, February 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry you are being treated in this way but you are so awesome for refusing to take it and taking the hard steps to get started seeing a lawyer. You deserve so so much better than this. (((Hugs))) and hope you sleep tonight too!

Sit. Feast on your life.

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