In all honesty, you should go see an attorney anyway just so you know what your rights are and to get that first "getting to know you" meeting out of the way with a lawyer. It is money WELL spent. I do not regret one penny that I spent talking to my lawyer. Even though my FWH and I are R, I still have her information and her phone number in my phone. Call it my security blanket.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
In my case, I'm glad my WS didn't wake up until after i was sure I wanted out. It was absolute hell to go through, but it forced me to look at my own denial about the viability of the relationship. Had he come out of his denial earlier, I would've likely stayed in mine and in an unhappy relationship.
Things may just have a way of working out.
Follow your path. It will likely lead you to where you need to go.
Sorry it hurts so much!!!!!!
[This message edited by TheAgonyOfIt at 12:52 AM, February 1st (Saturday)]