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okaynow
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Default  Posted: 11:15 PM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

DH and I are planning our honeymoon trip and need some suggestions about where to stay. We will be traveling in late September and spending 3 nights in London and 3 or 4 nights in Paris. I've never been to Europe before and have no idea where to stay. Or what to do.

Any suggestions? In London I know I'd like to see Baker Street (I'm a Sherlock Holmes fan, DH is just barely familiar with him but I'll fix that!). I would love to see Buckingham Palace, but other than that, I don't have ideas. I looked at the map of London when I was trying to select a hotel but it meant nothing to me. So....any and all suggestions will be appreciated.

Same thing goes for Paris. Ideas please.

Any warnings would be good, too.

Thanks for your help!


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Default  Posted: 12:07 AM, January 29th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I adore London! The first time I went, I booked a room at a Best Western property in an old Victorian townhouse in Earl's Court. It was extremely small and I had to move rooms due to a cockroach episode... well the buildings are old, so that's to be expected.

Last year I went upscale to Kensington and found a very nice independent hotel in a similar building, but the interior had been completely gutted and redone, and the room was small but very clean and functional.

Faced onto a lovely pocket garden on the street (private garden for the residents of that neighbourhood) and woke up to birds singing and peace and quiet even though it was just a block away from a main road. It was also very secure on the second floor with no balcony, and since I travel alone that is super important to me.

It was very handy to Hyde Park two blocks away (I generally seek out green spaces wherever I am) and the Tube.

If you only have 72 hours, get an Oyster Card that is good on the Tube and busses. Get down to the Embankment and just walk along the Thames -- London to me IS the Thames.

It has all the major sights -- Tower Bridge, Tower of London, Westminster etc. plus great restaurants for refreshment. September would be beautiful for lots of walkies.

You could also book the topless bus tour and see everything in a day.

Even though it's pricey, I highly recommend Kensington as it has all those pocket garden neighbourhoods and lots of places to get food and drink.

One place I'm going next time is Selfridge's food court on Oxford Street (I'm not a shopper, but I've heard that place is amazing).

As for Paris, I know nothing, but someone will be along shortly I'm sure.

PS: If the hotel offers to call you a private car service to get to the train station on your way out to the airport, you will get charged a flat rate that is about double what a taxi would charge. The taxis are very territorial, and some won't pick you up if they are on their way back from a drop off outside their zone. Do some investigating online about taxi protocol. I was clueless and paid more than I should have.

PPS: Since you'll be on your honeymoon, there's a champagne bar right in St. Pancras station (where the train leaves for Paris). Just saying...

[This message edited by FaithFool at 12:13 AM, January 29th (Wednesday)]


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Default  Posted: 8:55 AM, January 29th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We did Paris this past summer with the family. Highly suggest airbnb. This is a service that lets you find rooms for rent by owners. Much cheaper than hotel rooms, plus you usually get an entire flat. The locations and prices can't be beat.

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Default  Posted: 3:08 PM, January 29th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Kensington would be my choice for London, but for Paris I tend to go all artsy bohemian and stay in either Pigalle or Montmartre.


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Default  Posted: 11:14 PM, January 29th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for your input. Kensington it will be for London. For Paris, we're leaning towards a smallish hotel near the Champs Elysees.

If you had just a couple of days in each place, what would you want to do, see, eat?


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Default  Posted: 12:08 AM, January 30th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Jamie Oliver's Italian in Covent Garden was a riotous rambunctious evening full of prosecco, great people-watching and fabulous food (they even had prosecco ice cream), or one of Gordon Ramsay's restos -- I'm a fan.

Stop in at the Savoy and use the loo. They have cloth hand towels and I think there was an attendant, so maybe have a tip ready. Mind you, that's where the American Bar is, so you may want to have a cocktail there as well.

[This message edited by FaithFool at 12:12 AM, January 30th (Thursday)]


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Default  Posted: 1:58 AM, January 30th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'd second the red bus tours for enabling you to see all the main London tourist spots within a short time. On some you can hop off to look at particularly interesting places and then get on again when the next tour bus comes through.

If you're going to Buckingham Palace, you might enjoy watching the Changing of the Guard. But make sure you check on times and days, as the ceremonial change isn't done every day. Expect crowds. (Obviously, there will be fewer people at other times.) You can read more about it here:

http://www.royal.gov.uk/royaleventsandceremonies/changingtheguard/overview.aspx

I hope you'll have a wonderful honeymoon!


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Default  Posted: 5:30 AM, January 30th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When we stayed in London, we stayed at the Royal Horseguards, which is directly on the River Thames....BEST location...walking distance to the London Eye, Westminster Abbey, Buckingham Palace, Trafalgar Square...and so much more. Tons of pubs and restaurants, boat rides along the river, easy to the London Tower and also a block away from the train station.

In Paris we stayed at the Pullman Montparnasse, once again excellent location...directly across from the train station. My second choice would have been a hotel close to the Seine...Eiffel Tower, the Louvre, Notre Dame....Palace of Versaille was great, day trip to the beaches of Normandy, Giverny was lovely as well.

Have fun!


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Default  Posted: 6:45 AM, January 30th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Have been to both cities many times so will give you some thoughts:

London:

I'm not much use for hotels - usually stay with family or friends, but things to do:

If you're a sightseer then the biggies are probably:
- Buck Palace
- London Eye (this is good but need to book it)
- Tower of London
- Tower Bridge
- Hyde Park
- St Paul's Cathedral
- Houses of Parliament

The open top bus tours are great too if you want to see everything in a few hours - get one with a live guide rather than the taped guides that some have.

You are spoilt if you like art - Tate Modern is a favourite of mine - amazing building and great collection of modern art. Tate Britain if your tastes are less modern. There are also loads of amazing museums if that's your thing - British Museum in particular.

I am not into sightseeing so in London I like to wander around. Good places for a wander are:

- Islington (Upper Street - all antique shops, restaurants etc)
- Spitalfields to the east of the city area (financial district) - trendy bars
- Covent Garden - street entertainers, boutique shops and restuarants
- Brick Lane - excellent Indian food
- Soho - bars, buzzing London life day and night

Paris:

I like to stay in either Pigalle/ Montmartre area or in St Germain de Pres. The Marais is also a nice part of town to stay and so is Montparnasse.

Go see the Eiffel Tower if you must, but I think its touristy and overrated. The Basilica de Sacre Coeur and the area around it is lovely and the view across Paris from the basilica is great and a very romantic spot. The Louvre is a great museum and art gallery but massive and it would take weeks to see it all. The Musee D'Orsay is a favourite for me - great collection of impressionist paintings and you can see Monet's waterlillies at the Orangerie. Notre Dame Cathedral is worth a look too.

Paris' greatest pleasure is watching the world go by from a cafes. Good parts of town for this include Montmartre, St Germain (great but very small Sunday morning market here), the Latin Quarter and the Marais.

Also - go for a walk along the Seine. Its truly beautiful in the evening walking along past Notre Dame and Hotel de Ville areas.

In both cities you have a massive choice of places to eat, and where to go depends on taste and budget. Places I have enjoyed include:

- Canteen in Spitalfields Market in London (functional place but excellent British food and pies)
- Arbutus in Soho (London)

Paris:

Eat in one of the great Parisien brasseries - Bofinger (rue de la Bastille) is probably the best. I used to always go to a place called Brasserie Balzar on the Rue des Ecoles but some say its gone downhill - I don't know. Its been a few years. Perraudin is a great traditional French bistro.

Should say if you're vegetarian then these will not be great recommendations - they are traditional and meaty/ fishy.

Then you could also go for the seafood platter in any one of Paris' main brasseries - they often have seafood on ice outside and getting a big platter between two is one of the city's great experiences too.

Hope there's something in there for you. Be warned - Pairs is very, very expensive now. It was never cheap but it has got a lot pricier in the last few years. London's not so bad but can still burn a hole in the wallet.

Have fun - they are two of the world's truly great cities.

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Go see the Eiffel Tower if you must, but I think its touristy and overrated.

Nonetheless, it's THE symbol of Paris. So if I'd never been to Paris, I think I'd at least want to go to have a close-up look at it and walk beneath it. However, if you can't afford to go right up the Eiffel Tower, or don't have the time to stand in line for ages, you can also get quite good views across Paris from the top of the Arc de Triomphe.

As you'll be on your your honeymoon, Okaynow, you'll probably want a hotel. But in case anyone else is information-gathering here..... a few years ago I stayed briefly in a Think London apartment and thought it was good value for money. It was self-contained, and had a fully-equipped kitchen. Eating out in London can be very expensive, so it might be a good solution for anyone who wanted to save money on food.

I think posting a link for something like this might not be allowed, but googling Think London apartments should bring one up for you.

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Changing of the Guard was a bit of an anticlimax for me. The horses got really bored. But the spit and polish is something to see.

Oh, and go to Portobello Road. It's still got a few shops reminiscent of the glory days.

[This message edited by FaithFool at 6:33 PM, January 30th (Thursday)]


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Thank you ALL for the wonderful suggestions (and photos!) You guys are incredible!! I am sharing all of this with DH (he is impressed, too) and we will use this information as part of our trip planning. I'll keep you posted.

Again - many thanks!


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H and I were in Paris for 8 days and then London for a week back in September-early October.
We had amazing weather, unusually hot and dry. It only rained once in London.

We were on a tour package (Trafalgar), and it was well worth it. Airport/hotel transfers/hotel accommodations/public transportation passes/first day general bus tour were included.

We loved Paris. Our room was small, but it was in a quaint hotel and around the corner from the Metro (subway) station in the Vaugirard district (south Paris). The subway system is absolutely amazing in Paris!! It takes you everywhere. You should buy the NaviGo pass. You will need a photocopy of your passport photo when you buy the pass. Although, if you are only going to be 3 days, then single tickets are not pricey. We loved Montmartre and went there three times. We walked and walked and walked! The Eiffel Tower was very touristy, granted, but it was worth it! Not expensive ~ about $18 US. We ate at small restaurants which were not expensive at all. The antique stores & art galleries were H's focus. Me, I practiced my French!
A day trip to Versailles was included in our tour but it was very, very crowded! We enjoyed our evening cruise along the Seine which was part of our package.
Don't forget to buy a small brass padlock You will want to go to the Love Bridge, although there's more than one now. You can buy a lock for about 4 Euros.
EXPECT A LOT OF PEOPLE IN SEPTEMBER!


A cautionary note:
Last Fall the street thieves were very obvious. Young transient Europeans throw a "gold" ring in front of you...run and pick it up and ask if it's yours. Meanwhile, the pickpocket member is right there. Also, the girls have a petition which they want you to sign, and then demand money. They were annoying and everywhere! My H gave them a good dressing down a few times, although one of the antique shop owners had her storefront vandalized with paint and scratches. As well, up in Montmartre, the shell game was everywhere! These guys were making tons of Euros from tourists. So beware!

London ~ We stayed in Kensington, and, again, the public transportation system is wonderful. It's very easy to use. We had an Oyster pass and used it constantly. We didn't go on the Eye ~ that costs $30 US. After our morning tour, we walked back to Westminster Abbey for the 12:30 Communion service. We spent a lot of time in museums which are FREE in London. Only special exhibits require an entrance fee.
We ate at various restaurants, not expensive, and found a delightful tea shop on Kensington Church Street. We also bought takeout food @ the nearby grocery store - Sainsbury's chain.
We bought a full day excursion package to Stonehenge, the Salisbury Cathedral and the Roman baths in Bath.
Note: Buckingham Palace tours close for the winter at the beginning of October.

We want to return to both cities; hopefully within the next two years.
Enjoy your trip!
~ lf

Pics coming shortly!

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London: I vote for British Museum and Tower of London if you are history buffs at all.

Also - London theater is amazing. Look into seeing a play or musical.

Paris: The thing I like best is walking in Paris - start at Notre Dame and wander along the Seine or do a walking tour (or self walking tour from a guidebook)


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View from the top of the Eiffel Tower

H in front of Princess Diana's Memorial Flame on the Pont de L'Alma

In front of the Eiffel Tower

Pont des Arts, Paris
Lovers bring a lock and put it on the bridge and throw away the key, symbolically locking up their love for each other.

In front of Buckingham Palace

At Stonehenge

In Sticky Fingers Restaurant

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If you are a reader.......
...and love history......
I recommend that you read two books by Edward Rutherfurd:
Paris
London

These are historical fiction novels, following the lives of several families intertwining throughout the centuries
Paris actually focusses mostly on the construction of the Eiffel Tower.


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If you like history the cabinet war rooms are worth a visit in London.

It is Churchills underground bunker and was locked up and left At the end of the war. And only unlocked again about 20 years ago.

It is close to Downing Street, St James Park and the London Eye.

I would second Kensington and if you can stretch to it an evening at one of the West End musicals.

Covent Garden is a must see. Don't forget to put a couple of pounds in the street entertainers hat at the end.

We like Sophie's in Covent Garden. Fun busy restaurant.

Have fun.


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FaithFool and Looking Forward - WOW! Great photos. Thank you for sharing them. Your photos make planning this trip even more exciting!

I can't believe how much information you guys have given us. Thank you!!! Last night we booked our trip and now we're counting the days until September.

Thank you again for all the suggestions. We've taken them all to heart. I'm making a list of where to go, what to do, what do see, and your ideas are incredibly helpful. Thank you so very much!


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I hope you have a much fun as I did!


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