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Default  Posted: 6:39 AM, May 24th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage



This is a first for me as I make it a rule for myself to not get into an argument in someone else's thread. But this is twice now that you have not been supportive of SAF and I feel a deep need to jump in here.

People who live in glass houses should not throw stones RB46. Seeing as how you took your time to go find this thread and update it with some name calling, I did a little homework of my own on your sitch. You do realize that your wife turned you into the OM in your situation. With her leaving you for her AP and then using you for her other needs while she was still with her ex-military/fireman boyfriend, same "cuckold" label could be used for you. And this is how you felt about it:

"However, I feel, as I did do when I found out about the OM, that I'm kind of paralyzed by what's happened and feel totally emasculated."

If anyone should have compassion for SAF it should be you RB46. Cuckold? Really? I see you as the same thing in your situation. While your wife was out having the time of her like with her OM, she would use you to take care of the kids.

Nice. Really Nice RB46. Stop throwing stones when you are no better off.

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Apologies everyone.

SAF. How are you doing brother? Let us know when you get the chance. Been thinking about you lately and I know things have to be progressing somewhat one way or the other.


25 years and counting of pain caused by mother's infidelity. Aftermath: 1 deceased sibling, 1 lost family, 3 lost souls.
"Each new day I am just glad to be alive and have survived all that I did." Ashland13

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Default  Posted: 7:26 AM, May 24th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


What years of pain said.

You can't fix crazy. All you can do is document it

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Default  Posted: 3:16 PM, May 24th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It seems someone is living out his sexual fantasies vicariously through his fanciful imagination about my life. I'm not going to judge what gets some people off. Glad I could ease some frustration!

I'm doing fine. Happier than I've been at any time in 2014. Thanks for still thinking of me after all these months!

Me - BS 39
Her - WW 34
Kids - 3 & 1
Married - 9 years
Status - FUBAR

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Red  Posted: 3:18 PM, May 24th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

RichieBlue46 is no longer a member, if you want your thread to stay open that's fine, but lets stay on track.

Otherwise please let me know so we can lock it.

[This message edited by SI Staff at 3:20 PM, May 24th (Saturday)]

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

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