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User Topic: I think my ex is losing it. :/
PhantomLimb
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Default  Posted: 12:50 PM, January 26th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

For the record, I agree that you should keep it short and sweet-- but the email you originally drafted was awesome.


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Take2
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Default  Posted: 12:50 PM, January 26th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

until he changes it - he owes you. And it costs him to try and change it - let him take that risk. So not your problem!


"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

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SeanFLA
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Default  Posted: 3:15 PM, January 26th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

As we discussed, he's willing to now pay an attorney $5K plus court fee in order to save $120 per month. So his break even point won't be until well over 3.5 years. My guess is that in 3 years he'll be making an additional $120 per month in his current job with raises. That is of course unless he fucks up this job...again.

Some people are just clueless. It proves his selfishness, even when it directly affects his kids. Leave it and don't do a thing until he makes a move first. He probably doesn't even have the retainer to afford an attorney.


BS(me) 48
WW 46
1 son 14 yrs old
Married 18 yrs, together 21 yrs

"You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have." ~ Bob Marley


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