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Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 5:20 PM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm home. All quiet here. I texted with former SIL (wxh's sister).

He is not telling anyone that things are bad but she knows it's not good. She is afraid that he is going to crack.

He'd better not crack in my direction.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7811 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
Bebba1171
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Default  Posted: 5:50 PM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That jerk better not lay one hand on you or your corgis !


Divorced by Interlocutory decree in May 2012. WW had an affair with a 66 yo doctor she worked for.
D-Day Sept 16. 2011.
BH- 52 (Me) / XWW 50 - ages back in 2011
Two great kids that don't deserve this!

Posts: 727 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: USA
hexed
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Default  Posted: 7:01 PM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

check in again if you can. thinking about you tonight.


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


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caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 7:08 PM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I agree with hexed. I will be watching this thread!

Be safe. And warm.


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 7:34 PM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hope everything's okay. Sending you safe and secure mojo!


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

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Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 8:41 PM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, all quiet here. I'm thinking about bed. I'll be taking my attack dog to the bedroom with me!


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7811 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 8:47 PM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Finally able to check on this thread. Hope it stays quiet around you.


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

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tesla
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Default  Posted: 8:51 PM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Worried about you...stay safe.

(((wm)))


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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Skan
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Default  Posted: 8:52 PM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

May you have sweet dreams tonight and no drama. Pat your killer corgi for me. I used to raise, train, and show Pembroke Welsh Corgis!


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 7:48 AM, January 24th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hope the night went smoothly, Williesmom!


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 8:14 AM, January 24th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It did go peacefully. Thanks, all!


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7811 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 3:49 PM, January 24th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so glad you are ok and no hoopla came your way.

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dmari
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Default  Posted: 3:31 AM, January 25th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just wanted to check on you. Sending you peace and hugs!


Me (BS): 43 Children: DD 19, DS 15
Divorced September 30, 2014
"It's always darkest before the dawn ..."

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cmego
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Default  Posted: 6:22 AM, January 25th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

breathe….

Glad you are OK, keep us posted!!


me...BS, 44 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced


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Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 6:53 AM, January 25th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, we're in the middle of this really cold weather here in western PA, so most people aren't leaving the house unless they absolutely have to. I'll take it!


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7811 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
SusanR
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Default  Posted: 7:00 AM, January 25th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have friends with concealed carry licenses and I have a shovel!

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Mousse242
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Default  Posted: 5:08 PM, January 26th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Illinois is just implementing conceal carry. I'm not sure of the law in PA but this is what I was told at one of the self defense classes I have attended. If you feel like you are being threatened, carry. Pray you never need to use it, and we'll help you deal with the legal ramifications after the fact if you do.

I haven't completed all the class/range work needed yet but if I was in your situation, I would always be carrying. Both a gun and knife and have taken several hard core self defense classes.

I pray that you continue to be safe.


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hexed
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Default  Posted: 5:25 PM, January 26th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ah cooling off period! (har har har) Keep the snow shovel handy!


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


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Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 6:12 PM, January 26th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes, it's really amazing with the weather that we have right now. No one is going anywhere.

For those of you that suggested, I do carry. I have a permit and a hand gun. I do know how to use it. Wxh knows this.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7811 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
dmari
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Default  Posted: 7:41 PM, January 26th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Glad to hear from you and sounds like you are as protected as one could be which reassures all of us. I will continue to keep you in my thoughts. Stay safe and take care!


Me (BS): 43 Children: DD 19, DS 15
Divorced September 30, 2014
"It's always darkest before the dawn ..."

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