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User Topic: karma bus gaining speed
dmari
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Default  Posted: 8:26 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I will be keeping you in my thoughts. At this point, our focus is on YOUR safety. I won't start popping my popcorn until we know you are safe and ok. Hugs!!


Me (BS): 42 Children: DD 18, DS 15
Settled at mediation
Officially divorced ... SOON!

Posts: 2146 | Registered: Oct 2012
myowndystopia
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Default  Posted: 9:10 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending strength, courage and positive thoughts to Williesmom! Will be looking for updates!


Me- BS
Him - WS (the Grub)
married 28 years/4 kids(mostly grown)

"'Cause there's a side to you that I never knew, never knew.
All the things you'd say, they were never true, never true "
Set Fire to the Rain
Adele


Posts: 408 | Registered: Nov 2013
cayc
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Default  Posted: 9:35 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

YES KARMA. Boo having to worry about being collateral damage. Be safe and please keep us updated!!!

(((williesmom)))


"The difference between involvement and commitment is like ham and eggs. The chicken is involved, the pig is committed." -Martina Navratilova
"The question isn't who is going to let me; it's who is going to stop me." -Ayn Rand

Posts: 3059 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Mexico
thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 9:44 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Stand inside the curve as the karma bus speeds around it, Williesmom. Hugs. Expect the unexpected.


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

Posts: 2295 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 11:03 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Do you need me to come down there? (I wish I had my mastiff; at least the corgis will sound the alarm.) (((((Williesmom)))))


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 20035 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 7:45 AM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What the??? (((WM)))


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17341 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 8:37 AM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I know. It's crazy. Whatever is going to happen will be today or tomorrow. I was expecting today, but we've got horrible roads and black ice here - so there may be a delay.

Sad - Who needs a mastiff when you have killer corgis? Actually one of my corgis has never met WXH - that dog does not like strange men and tends to be very protective of me. And, he is tenacious.

Just a little on edge today.

[This message edited by Williesmom at 8:41 AM, January 23rd (Thursday)]


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7575 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
Lola2kids
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Default  Posted: 8:59 AM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hang in there Williesmom.
I'm glad you checked in this morning.
I think there are a lot of people here waiting along with you and hoping everything will be ok.


BS: (Me) 47
Kids: twins DD(10)
D-Day April 18, 2011
Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved to Europe June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"

Posts: 1364 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Ontario, Canada
dmari
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Default  Posted: 9:01 AM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So glad to hear from you! Still keeping you in my thoughts!


Me (BS): 42 Children: DD 18, DS 15
Settled at mediation
Officially divorced ... SOON!

Posts: 2146 | Registered: Oct 2012
StillLivin
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Default  Posted: 11:02 AM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just said a silent prayer for your safety and serenity til he is no longer a threat!!!
Please keep keeping us posted.


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2214 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 11:11 AM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((WM)))

Sending you strength and keeping you in my thoughts. Please check in when you can.


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Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 11:16 AM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We're with you!


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9538 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 11:23 AM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Stay safe, WM....and keep us updated please.


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 7951 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 11:39 AM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Shit is going down as we speak.

Ok, my wxh has a business. It never made money, and I covered his losses for years before the Affair, which was with our secretary. We've been D for 5+ years.

Yesterday, one of his suppliers called me. Apparently, WXH owes him a LOT of money. The supplier paid for a background check and got my name (and wxh is still using my address as his residence). I had met the guy years ago, and told him what I could. I also told him that wxh carries a loaded weapon in his truck at all times.

The guy said that he didn't think wxh would do that. I said "I didn't think he would fuck his secretary either, but here we are having this conversation."

Anyway, this guy is driving over 800 miles to get his inventory. My dad called me a few minutes ago. Dad was at the store and said that there is a man from out of state at the local mini-mart asking for directions to wxh's business.

Wxh is not home. If he comes home while this guy is getting his stuff, it is going to go to shit very fast.

Break out the popcorn. And pray for me - I'm going to be home before dark, with the alarm system armed.

You can not make this shit up.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7575 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
betrayedfriend
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Default  Posted: 11:59 AM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Many prayers for your safety as well as for the supplier's safety, please make sure the police know, maybe they can set up a speed trap or something so they can be close to you if you need them.


I originally joined SI as a way to help my best friends find ways of coping with infidelity, but now infidelity has touched my family much closer to home.

Posts: 865 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Midwest USA
hexed
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Default  Posted: 12:17 PM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

maybe you should be in a hotel room registered under a different name.

lots of hugs and prayers


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 8439 | Registered: Apr 2008
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 12:28 PM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Maybe you could just check in with us on the forum occasionally through the day so we know you're okay?

Meanwhile...


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9538 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 12:28 PM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I really can't leave home right now. We've got sub-zero temperatures, and with 4 busy dogs.... we're not welcome very many places.

I need to stay put, which is OK. My town is small and rural - not really anywhere to hide.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7575 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
still2suspicious
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Default  Posted: 12:52 PM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending prayers your way.

Sounds like you are as protected as you can be.

Maybe the shit will happen in town??

Does the police know? Maybe a head's up will help the out-of-state guy?

Stay safe, wm.

(((wm)))


Me: BS
Him: WH
DDay: LTEA

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caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 5:03 PM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

thinking of you!


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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