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User Topic: The ex comes on little cat feet...
Harriet
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Default  Posted: 9:52 PM, December 31st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I feel so strong, so indifferent. And then the ex texts me and it catches me by quiet surprise that seeing his name on my phone sends a shot of pure anger and hatred through me, because I know it will be a terse message about picking up the kids, and not a heartfelt apology nor a message that he is lonely this new year's eve nor that he misses me or his old family life. He is just doing what I asked of him - NC unless it has to do with the kids. But I hate him for doing it tonight, being so silent like I asked him to be, but still being there in my head.

[This message edited by Harriet at 12:11 AM, January 1st (Wednesday)]


D-Day Spring 2008
3 years false R
Divorce Final 6/7/12

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:04 PM, December 31st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Harriet))))


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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NotFixable
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Default  Posted: 10:22 PM, December 31st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Harriet))) I understand....totally!


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Married 13 years
DD #1 03/12
DD #2 11/20/13
Status: Separated and planning D
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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 11:09 PM, December 31st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Harriet)))

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katiesmom
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Default  Posted: 9:12 AM, January 1st (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Harriet)))

I totally understand. I feel the same way when my ex's name pops up on my phone in a text. Nothing but pure anger.


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Harriet
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Default  Posted: 1:11 AM, January 6th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I changed his name to God's Gift to Women. Now I chuckle when he texts.


D-Day Spring 2008
3 years false R
Divorce Final 6/7/12

Posts: 500 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: California
BAB61
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Default  Posted: 1:38 AM, January 6th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My dd (16) changed his name on her phone from 'Daddikins' to 'Cheating Asshole' .... makes me laugh every time I think of it. I hear you about the little cat feet ...sneaks up on you.


Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.

Posts: 1271 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: DE
Pass
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Default  Posted: 4:33 PM, January 6th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's like we all have a Shining thing going on: I changed The Princess' name in my phone to "Cheating C**t". Some day I may be ready for something a little less hateful, but that day ain't here yet!


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

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tesla
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Default  Posted: 5:37 PM, January 6th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hear you. For a long time, his name on my phone was a name family and I used to make fun of him (oddly, not ex-shat...family has something else they enjoy calling him )

Now I've changed his name to his full, given name...but I sure HATE seeing it pop up on my phone.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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