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User Topic: Finally got timeline. Now what?
Yakamishi
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Member # 38230
Default  Posted: 5:49 PM, December 28th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I asked WW for a timeline on Mothers Day. I finally got it today. Read the whole thing. It went back five years from the simple flirting to EA to 4 month PA and back to 2 year EA.

I guess I'm slightly underwhelmed as there is nothing new in there. Everything she wrote out we already have discussed various times over the last 15 months. Was it painful to see it on paper? Yeah, but not as bad as I envisioned. Knowing me, it will probably hit me tonight or tomorrow. Then the floodgates open.

Sigh. Oh well, at least she finally finished it. Maybe that in and of itself might bring us further into healing.


Me: BH
Her: WW Mrs.yaka
Kids:4
Variouse clues to EA. WW promised it would stop.
D-Day of EA 9/13/2012 2:01PM found 2 yrs of text messages, confessed to EA
D-Day of PA: confessed on 9/22/12 11:53 PM. Worst moment of my life

Posts: 211 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Massachusetts
iwillNOT
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Member # 40605
Default  Posted: 7:11 PM, December 28th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You are braver than I am. My WH says his timeline is ready any time, but I am too scared to read it. I need to do it, it is keeping me stuck.

My point is, you are moving forward and that is a good thing. She did what you asked. You read it and now you know there are no new, big secrets to discover. I hope your upset from this is much less than you think.


Me: BS, 43
Him: WH, 44
Together 21 years
Married 14 years
Kiddos 2,6,8,10
Dday#1 2004, 3 years after EA/PA co-worker MOW
Dday#2 8-6-13, 13 months EA/9months PA with co-worker MOW - caught not confessed
Rugsweep now, pay later. Ask me how I know.

Posts: 468 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Midwest
Yakamishi
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Member # 38230
Default  Posted: 12:41 AM, December 29th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Its almost 2am. Depression hitting me big time. For fucks sake why did this happen?!


Me: BH
Her: WW Mrs.yaka
Kids:4
Variouse clues to EA. WW promised it would stop.
D-Day of EA 9/13/2012 2:01PM found 2 yrs of text messages, confessed to EA
D-Day of PA: confessed on 9/22/12 11:53 PM. Worst moment of my life

Posts: 211 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Massachusetts
ItsaClimb
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Member # 37107
Default  Posted: 3:59 AM, December 29th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

{yakamishi} just want you to know you have been heard. I'm roughly as far out as you and feeling very depressed too. Hoping that when morning comes you will be feeling better.


BS 46
Together 29 yrs, M 25 years
2 daughters 24yo(married with a brand new little daughter) & 19yo
D-Day 18 Aug 2012
6mth EA lead to 4mth PA with CO-W. I found out 8 1/2 yrs later

Posts: 905 | Registered: Oct 2012
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