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User Topic: nothing big, just packing is So so so so slow
TheAgonyOfIt
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Default  Posted: 12:10 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

packing up house under the radar but still have to attend to regular life. it is so so so slow. sorting, deciding, buttoning and all that. Moving along but wish i could do it faster. that's it. thanks.


Me BS 49, ExWS: narcissist! Jekyll Hyde. Left in secret early July, moved states. Now homeless but getting it together. Necessary but difficult(!) transition! Sad sad sad but hopeful.

Posts: 554 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: theagonyofit
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 12:15 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I know it seems slow, honey, but after a while, you will be surprised by all you have accomplished.

Patience and strength to you.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25259 | Registered: Aug 2011
LoveHerStill
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Default  Posted: 3:46 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Every box is an accomplishment! Keep at it! Make sure to reward yourself every day you get some boxes packed. A nice coffee or an ice cream treat! You are strong! You got this!


Me BH-45
Her WW-44
Married-20yrs
Together-26yrs
D-Day 4/11/10
Divorced 9/13/2010
XWW Married OM 5/23/2011

There is hope. Once you truly commit to focusing on yourself and letting go, it comes back, and you will appreciate it like never before.


Posts: 462 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Seattle, WA
BAB61
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Default  Posted: 5:25 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Do what you can, as you can. I am mentally packing up all his shit ... can't wait to get started.


Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.

Posts: 1271 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: DE
TheAgonyOfIt
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Default  Posted: 9:45 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

thanks everyone. it's slow but I am getting rid of more stuff than i'm putting into boxes, which is also good!!!! Donations, donations. Less to move. i just wish I could do it faster, but i just can't because it's not all i have to do! WS is out of town until sunday; i wish he'd stay there!

AND i have a home based business with INVENTORY which makes it that much more of a chore.

Thanks for responding to my smallest problem. I'm so happy this is my problem now. It's so much better than dealing with trying to work it out with WS!


Me BS 49, ExWS: narcissist! Jekyll Hyde. Left in secret early July, moved states. Now homeless but getting it together. Necessary but difficult(!) transition! Sad sad sad but hopeful.

Posts: 554 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: theagonyofit
sunsetslost
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Default  Posted: 12:40 AM, December 28th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would give my therapist updates. She let me roll with it. I can be out in two days. Next week: I can be out in 18 hours. Next week: still 18 hours. Didn't have the energy. Next week: I can be out in 12 hours. Next week: I can be out in 6. Next week: out in 2. Next week: I moved last Saturday.

Point is slow and steady wins. And when it's time to go you can just be gone


Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.

Posts: 747 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: The beach.
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