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User Topic: BS are you struggling with this
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Default  Posted: 3:14 PM, December 29th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I struggle with trust also. I'm very honest with my FWH about my lack of trust. And I have no idea how he could prove himself. I had to stop the verifying process though because I would have anxiety attacks just at the thought of looking at his phone.

Maybe I'm not being fair to my FWH, as he's a recovering SA and has a long way to go as far as maturity and logic go, but I shouldn't have to verify. He should go out of his way to be as transparent as he can possibly be. For such an intelligent man, he can be so incredible dense.
= the look on his face when we talk about transparency, followed by "I thought I was doing a really great job."

Me-BS (41)
Him-SAWH (41)
Together 25 years, married 21 years
4 precious kiddos
Multi DDay's,False R
4 Ea's, 1 ONS, 3 STA's, & 2 LTA's & 1 OC

I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength!

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