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User Topic: nc and merry christmas?
yestopants
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Default  Posted: 9:00 PM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am doing nc but received an email from WH…. it said Merry Christmas, my name. the kids seem to be excited about christmas and how hard it is for him to see over Skype. I wasn't going to respond…because it was still all about him. Is that the right decision? am I thinking about this too much…AHHH any advice would be appreciated. Thanks in advance.


Me: 35
STBXWH: 38
2 amazing kids DS DD
almost Divorced!

Posts: 283 | Registered: Dec 2013
ItHappened2Me2
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Default  Posted: 9:04 PM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm not very experienced in this -- but I would say don't respond. It was his choice that put in the position of only seeing Christmas over Skype. Too bad if it's hard for him to see.

NC NC NC


BS - me (52); WS - him (52)
DD 15yo, DS 11 yo
Married 25 years (together 27+/-)
DDay #1 - March 18, 2011
DD #2 (after 3 + month TT and false R -- the affair had gone underground) - June 28,2011
DD3: June 19, 2013 - he started up again with the

Posts: 241 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: Texas
yestopants
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Default  Posted: 9:10 PM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just desperately need reassurance…..ugh I should feel bad for him! this is what he wanted. He asked me to leave and take the kids. I just have to remember this was no my choice. THANK YOU for responding…I really needed to hear it and hear it and hear it! this sucks.


Me: 35
STBXWH: 38
2 amazing kids DS DD
almost Divorced!

Posts: 283 | Registered: Dec 2013
PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 9:25 PM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Did he ask you a question about the kids or finances?? No?

Then crickets is all he deserves. It does suck. They wanted to be seperate. So now they have to deal with the consequences of the choice to walk away from their family. Sucks to be him, eh?


divorced the Dooosh
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3618 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
yestopants
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Default  Posted: 9:40 PM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He deserves more than crickets…but I'm sure thats what he is getting. I hope he has a Merry F'n Christmas all alone. Feeling better. Thank God for SIers or I would cave. When I have no strength I go here first. You guys give me the boost I need. Reading or posting here is a christmas miracle as far as I'm concerned.


Me: 35
STBXWH: 38
2 amazing kids DS DD
almost Divorced!

Posts: 283 | Registered: Dec 2013
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