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Bluebird26
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Default  Posted: 7:16 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just when I think I am over this crap, it comes back to bite me.

I had a complete breakdown yesterday, now back on the AD. I don't want to be but know it's what I need to do right now. The breakdown is more to do with my violent autistic son and being a single parent and being overwhelmed and simply exhausted. Nobody is trying to help. I have been asking for help but no one wants too, he just gets put in the too hard basket.

Merry Christmas to me....


"Loving someone should not mean losing you. Love empowers you. It shouldn't erase you. - Thelma Davis.

Posts: 1348 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
Lola7
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Default  Posted: 7:21 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((breakdown)) Just sending prayers that your life will be so much better in 2014.


caelitus mihi vires
"My strength is from heaven"
DIVORCED!

Posts: 211 | Registered: Nov 2013
Pass
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Default  Posted: 7:39 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry, Bluebird. Don't think of taking antidepressants as a defeat. If you woke up with strep throat, you would feel fine about taking antibiotics. If they can help you, taking them is the best thing you can do for yourself. I hope things get easier for you.


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


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Pass
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Default  Posted: 7:39 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry, Bluebird. Don't think of taking antidepressants as a defeat. If you woke up with strep throat, you would feel fine about taking antibiotics. If they can help you, taking them is the best thing you can do for yourself. I hope things get easier for you.


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


Posts: 1990 | Registered: Jan 2013
Gemini71
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Default  Posted: 7:47 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I can't imagine trying to single parent an autistic child. I pray that you find some respite care for him and for yourself.


Edited to correct stupid typos.

Two steps forward and one step backwards, is still progress.


Posts: 1798 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Illinois, USA
neverbeokay
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Default  Posted: 7:51 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Agree with Pass, you need to take care of you. I also have a son with autism and am a single mom so I can relate. Hope you find the help you need for both of you ((bluebird)).

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cayc
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Default  Posted: 7:55 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((bluebird))))


"The difference between involvement and commitment is like ham and eggs. The chicken is involved, the pig is committed." -Martina Navratilova
"The question isn't who is going to let me; it's who is going to stop me." -Ayn Rand

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tesla
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Default  Posted: 8:03 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((((bluebird))))))


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4655 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
Skan
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Default  Posted: 1:35 PM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((hugs))) Listen, taking ADs when you need them, is no more of a weakness than taking an insulin shot so you don't go into a diabetic coma. Medicine is medicine.


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4857 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 1:38 PM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((HUGS))))


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9714 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
rainagain
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Default  Posted: 7:31 PM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Bluebird))))

I'm sorry this is so hard and if I knew you irl I could give you a break. You are doing an amazing job I know how hard it can be. Know that we care here and that you are wished peace and comfort. Keep posting.


Now, faith is being sure of what you hope for and certain of what you cannot see. Heb 11:1
I done been through the pain and the sorrow the struggle is nothing but love. Maino
Me: Divorced BS 49
DS22, DD19, DS17

Posts: 1298 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Massachusetts
Bluebird26
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Default  Posted: 9:50 PM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you everyone. I know AD are not a weakness, I just hate that I need to take them. Kind of like my whole life revolves around that pill. Just wish I was stronger. As my doctor told me, my whole adult life has been traumatic there is only so long you can be 'strong' for with needing some help.

I hate asking for help it's just not in my nature. But I now know that I am overwhelmed and asking for help no one seems to want to help.

I hope everyone is having a happy festive season.

[This message edited by Bluebird26 at 9:52 PM, December 25th (Wednesday)]


"Loving someone should not mean losing you. Love empowers you. It shouldn't erase you. - Thelma Davis.

Posts: 1348 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
finallymefirst
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Default  Posted: 9:57 PM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Bluebird)))....sending prayers!!

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