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User Topic: Poor muffin
BrokenDaisy
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Default  Posted: 4:42 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Been getting texts all week from wxh about how he misses us and how hard it is being alone and he has to work over the holidays and and and.... Poor muffin.

The last christmas he spent with me he was complaining the whole time, didn't want to participate in any family events, deep into multiple affairs, wishing me dead so he could escape and be with his favourite slut of the pack.... Yeah, I'm not missing any of it!

I am having a great time with family and currently cuddling with my sweet little boy who is taking his midday nap. So happy to be free of the negative energy of wxh.

Crickets. He can find someone else to feed him ego kibbles. The idiot! He honestly thinks I am sitting around waiting for him and would take him back in a flash. Although I think reality is starting to bite him in the a$$. As is said often on SI: Couldn't happen to a nicer guy.

[This message edited by BrokenDaisy at 4:43 AM, December 25th (Wednesday)]


Me BxW, him SA NPD WxH
1 wonderful toddler - sole legal custody to me and supervised visitation to xwh.
DDay 01/2012
10/2013 Finally Divorced!!

Posts: 266 | Registered: Oct 2012
GingerAle
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Default  Posted: 7:26 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am having a great time with family and currently cuddling with my sweet little boy who is taking his midday nap. So happy to be free of the negative energy of wxh.


I got a huge smile on my face when I read that! I am so happy for you.

Isn't it just unbelievable that after all of the horrible things they do, they can still think they are going to get sympathy or attention from us because they "are lonely" or "miss us"?? Yeah, poor muffin, indeed


My WH (The KISA, NPD) 6 month EA in 2010
2 other EAs in 2012 & 2013
Filed for D 7/2014


Posts: 425 | Registered: Nov 2011
Gemini71
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Default  Posted: 7:43 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The best response is crickets of course. But it does tempt one to text back...

...Who is this?
...I'm sorry, no grinches allowed today.
...Glad to hear it!

All of those involve negative energy in some way, so your crickets are best. Enjoy your peaceful Holiday!


Edited to correct stupid typos.

Two steps forward and one step backwards, is still progress.


Posts: 1855 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Illinois, USA
Abbondad
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Default  Posted: 8:03 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi,

I just read Gemini's post and now yours. Mine is love-bombing as well.

I guess it's now an official additional ritual of the holidays:

"Holiday Hoovering."

Actions=Consequences


Divorced April Fool's Day 2014

Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
-Dune


Posts: 1625 | Registered: Dec 2012
tesla
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Default  Posted: 8:04 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good for you for not giving a fuck.

Keep on living your awesome life!!


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4683 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
BrokenDaisy
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Default  Posted: 1:39 PM, December 26th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Isn't it just unbelievable that after all of the horrible things they do, they can still think they are going to get sympathy or attention from us because they "are lonely" or "miss us"?? Yeah, poor muffin, indeed

This exactly. He still expects me to make him feel better. Beyond delusional!

Had to laugh at your suggestions Gemini especially the "glad to hear it"

Abbondad exactly. They struggle to understand the whole actions has consequences thing.

Yup Tesla my 'give a fuck' is broken and my NB isn't perfect but I am happier than I've been in years. I'm trying to learn from my son and live in the NOW and focus on what I can do instead of all I can't do.


Me BxW, him SA NPD WxH
1 wonderful toddler - sole legal custody to me and supervised visitation to xwh.
DDay 01/2012
10/2013 Finally Divorced!!

Posts: 266 | Registered: Oct 2012
StillLivin
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Default  Posted: 2:20 PM, December 26th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Holiday Hoovering."

Snort....I WAS eating lunch and almost choked at this one!
BrokenDaisy....good for you. Glad you are enjoying the holidays without all the negativity that he brought to the table.


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2325 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
justjim
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Default  Posted: 3:10 PM, December 26th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Next year I hope to be where you are now.


Follow your BRAIN.
Your HEART is stupid as shit.

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